In Giving We Receive在给予中，我们得到。

If you do not feel loved, it is probably because you are not showing love. If you do not feel respect, it is probably because you are not showing respect.

如果你感觉不到被爱，也许是你没有展示出你的爱。如果你感觉不到被尊重，也许是你没有展示出你的尊重。

Human nature is that people reciprocate with what you give them. If you are impersonal to others, most people will be impersonal to you. If you do not show care and affection for others, people will probably ignore you. That is human nature.

人类的本性是在你所给予的方面回报你（以德报德）。如果你对他人冷漠，大部分人也会对你冷漠。如果你从来没有关心或爱过他人，人们也一定会忽视你。这就是人类的本性。

so anyone can say, "Nobody loves me. Everybody is so impersonal to me." But I have seldom found someone who extends himself to be caring, loving and affectionate towards others and doesn't receive love from others. How you behave with others draws certain qualities from within them. If you insult others, you draw out their anger. If you praise others, you draws out their pride. If you are affectionate to others, you can draw out whatever affection is within their hearts. In giving, we receive.

所以任何人都可以说，“没人爱我，所有人对我都很冷漠。”但是据我观察，一些人对他人展示出关心、爱与情义时，这些人中鲜少没有收获的。在对待他人的某种行为方式里，你会从他们内在获得特定的品质。如果你侮辱他人，你会获得他们的愤怒；如果你赞扬他人，你会获得他们的自豪感；如果你对他人充满情义，你会获得他们内心的所有情义。在给予中，我们得到。