用新的视角看待你的恐惧
这是我看巴夏视频的时候摘录的一段他对恐惧的解读,这个解读让我能够重新看待我的恐惧,它是我的朋友,而不是我内心脆弱、无助的表现。因为解读的非常好,我把中英文原文都打出来了,又能练习英文又能理解他的本意。
FEAR
All fears, all fears, are a reaction to something you believe to be ture .
所有的恐惧,所有的恐惧, 都是你相信某物为真而产生的一个反应。
You don't have a feeling about anything if you don't have a definition or a belief about that thing or that circumstance or that situation . So all fears no matter how it exhibits .
如果不是你先对某个事物、某个情境、某种情况预设了一个定义或者信念,你根本不会对它们有任何情绪或感受。
First of all, understand it is a reaction to a definition you have bought into.
所以首先要明白,它(恐惧)是你对你自己认同的某个定义产生的反应。
That is the impression that you bought into . It was a belief system or a definition that allows you to experience your reality in this particular emotional way .
所以问题在于你认定的那个定义是什么。正是有这样一个信念系统或者定义,才会让你以这种特定的情绪方式去体验你的现实。
That's what fear is for .
这就是恐惧的意义。
It is there to tell you, you have a belief that is out of alignment with who and what you truly are .
它的出现是在告诉你,你有一个信念跟你真正的身份不相符合。
We have often use the analogy of a piano, the instrument on your planet to demonstrate this idea .
我们经常用钢琴——你们星球上的乐器,来比喻这个说法。
If you're sitting down at a piano and you are playing a song and all that sudden you hit a sour Key, you do not usually run away from the piano screaming in terror and swearing you will never play again .
如果你正坐在钢琴边弹奏一首歌,突然你弹出了一个走音,这时你一般不会一边害怕地大叫跑开,一边发誓这辈子再也不碰钢琴了。
Usually you say, ah, this is out of tune, i must tune that particular key .
通常你会说,啊,这个音不准了,我必须要调一下这个音了。
And this is what fear is .It's like a sour key . A flat key . An out of tune key . It must be tuned .
这就是恐惧的含义。它就像一个走音、跑调、走调的音。必须要校准。
What must be tuned ?
所以需要校准的是什么呢?
The definition must be tuned .
是你认同的那个定义需要被校准了。
You must find out what the definition is that allowing you to experience the flat key . Change the definition which is the process by tuning and then bring it back into harmony whit the rest of the keys .
你必须找出那个定义是什么,让你体验了那个跑调的音。改变定义就是校准的过程。然后再让它和其他的键恢复和谐。
That's really all it is .
这就是整个过程。
And the specific type of fear can be as we have said, a big clue, as to what the definition is you may have bought into .
特定类型的恐惧,就像我们说过的,它是找出你认定的那个定义的巨大线索。
So use your fear to serve you .
所以,要利用你的恐惧来服务于你。
And more you understand that's what fear can be used to do, the more exited and curious you'll become about fear when you experience it .
当你对恐惧的作用理解得越多,你就会在体验恐惧时对它越来越兴奋和好奇。
And the more quickly you will transform the fear into curiosity, imagination and inspiration .
并且,你能把恐惧转化为好奇、想象和激励的速度也就会越来越快了。