看淡一切不辞而别，珍惜懂你爱你的人
爱情的过程中，就理论层面，我们会觉得自己无知，在实践层面，我们会觉得自己无能为力，但是，希望大家都能保证一点，就是当我们面对爱情时候，我们是要真诚的。欺骗是对人情感最大的伤害，因为你不但再伤害别人，拒绝别人的真实情感和真诚。同时在欺骗一个人的同时已经把别人当成弱智，把一个真诚对待你的人当成一个傻瓜耍，你没有把对方当作对等的人，如果你在拒绝别人的情感，至少把他当作对等的人，尊重他，但如果你欺骗别人，你其实就是把对方当作比你低一等的动物。
In the process of love, on the theoretical level,we will feel ignorant,on the pratical level,we feel ourself unable to do anything,but I hope everyone can guarantee that when we fact love, I have to be sincere. Deception is the greatest harm to people's emotional,because you not only hurt others,but also reject other's true feelings and sincerity. At the same time,when you deceiving someone that have alreadly looked him as a idiot,and treats a person who treats you sincerely as a fool.you do not regard the other person as a peer,if you reject other's emotional,as least treat him as a equal,repect him,but if you deceive other's, you treat others as a animial that is lower than you.
在爱情里，没有适不适合，只有够不够爱，如果真正的相爱，再不适合也有千万种理由在一起，如果不够爱，只需一个理由分开。当你和你的爱人分手了，他真心的选择离开你，那么你就别再纠缠和挽留他，只需要祝他幸福就可以了，当爱一个人时，你是希望对方幸福，如果对方也爱你，那么你们两的幸福就在一起，如果有一天，他不再爱你了，那么你的幸福就和他的幸福分开了，所以爱一个不是勉强的捆绑着他，而且当的放手祝他获得幸福，才是一种爱，这时候你不仅放过了他，而且还是放过了你自己。
In love, there is not suitable or not,only enough love,if true love,there are thousands of reasons together even it is unsuitable,if it is not enough love,there is just a one reason to separate,when you break up with your lover,she decide to leave you,then you should not entangle and remain her anymore,just wish her get happiness,when you love someone,you hope her happiness,if she loves you,then a happiness of both of you is together,if one day,she no longer loves you,then your happiness is separated from hers,so love her is not tied to her,love her is let her go,it is a kind of love,at this time, you are not only let her go,but also let youself go.
喜新厌旧不是病，不断原谅才是病，相遇总是猝不及防，离别多是蓄谋已久，能轻易失去的东西，根本谈不上遗憾，珍惜所有的不期而遇，看淡所有的不辞而别，懂你得人，才配得上和你过余生。
To abandon the old for the new is not a illiness,and it is always forgiveness is a illiness,meeting is caught off guard,Leaving is keep on plotting for a long time,if It is easy to lost it that can not be regrets. cherish all the unexpected encounters,slight all the leave without saying goodbye,the person who understand you is worthy of accompanying with you in the rest of life.
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