love is a fallacy
“Love is a fallacy” is about a conceited, intelligent, and young man-- Dobbie Gillis,seeking for the woman who are able to befit his personality when he becomes a lawyer. Petey , Dobbie’s illogical roommate, is a simple guy who followed the the crowed and his girlfriend--Polly attracts Dobbie. Using Petey’s desire for a raccoon coat, seemingly, Dobbie got the chance to date with Polly, The dilemma was that, Polly, who Dobbie thinks is too, an illogical person after their first dating. But Dobbie is confident that th Dobbie rough his wit, he can change Polly from dumb to an intelligent girl after then she will be smarter and more qualified to be a wife. In their five so-called dates that appeared to be tutorial sessions, Dobbie succes to make a logician out of Polly. Dobbie then decides to express his feelings towards Polly, but each time he tries, Polly points out the fallacies in every sentence he gives in expressing his love. Finnaly, Polly still choose Petey to be his boyfriend because he has a racoon coat.
Never been in love with someone , this story taught me a lesson which may help me to better understand what “love” is and reflect my daily words and deeds while I try to get along with somebody else . Till now, I still do not know what’s my ideal definition of truth love is and how to properly behave if it happens to me. But sure as I am, that funny even clownish love relation is not what I want.
Love is a spontaneous feeling, never try to design it, control it. Hurricanes, typhoons, tsunamis and earthquakes can be predicted, with the advancement of high-tech, I have a thousand reasons to believe that all those disasters one day can be controlled. However, love, without any rules and logic never belongs to those divinable. It’s impossible to locate and dominate the its trace. Rebecca Sharp in the “vanity fair “ is a case in the point. Making full use of accessible relations, tricks and methods to gain what she wanted and thought all the love affairs would go smoothly as she designed and never be found, how stupid she was, undoubtedly, she cornered herself to the cul-de-sac.
Love is a natural outpouring, never to love with extra condition. Dobbie loves Polly because she is a potentially wonderful wife; Polly loves Petey, because he has a raccoon coat; Petey loves Polly, but betrays her for the sake a raccoon caot. They do love, but just love the thing not the owner himself. Assuming that, what if Dobbie still owns the raccoon coat? Frankly speaking, I do not know, either, for love is unpredictable. A coat can win a girlfriend and a girlfriend can be given up. there must be something wrong, this is not the love in my imagination.
To love someone is to accept his all, good or bad progress can be made together, yet don’t require changing or reshaping each other. Falling in love do not mean to become one, till, the two are unattached individuals with different characters and personalities. It is the difference that makes two people attracts each other, and it is the similarities that decide how well two persons can along with one another. And the one who loves frankly will voluntarily make some change. Like Darcy, my beloved character. He changed the way he behaves and talks. He did have some dissatisfaction about Elisabeth’s family condition and other brain-empty sisters, but never had he tried to change. What he loved is Elisabeth, with respect.
A real man, the kinds of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honor her like the valuable treasure she is; is a man who will not attempt to rip her precious of pearl from its protective shell, or persuade her to change.
Never been in love with someone , this story taught me a lesson which may help me to better understand what “love” is and reflect my daily words and deeds while I try to get along with somebody else . Till now, I still do not know what’s my ideal definition of truth love is and how to properly behave if it happens to me. But sure as I am, that funny even clownish love relation is not what I want.
Love is a spontaneous feeling, never try to design it, control it. Hurricanes, typhoons, tsunamis and earthquakes can be predicted, with the advancement of high-tech, I have a thousand reasons to believe that all those disasters one day can be controlled. However, love, without any rules and logic never belongs to those divinable. It’s impossible to locate and dominate the its trace. Rebecca Sharp in the “vanity fair “ is a case in the point. Making full use of accessible relations, tricks and methods to gain what she wanted and thought all the love affairs would go smoothly as she designed and never be found, how stupid she was, undoubtedly, she cornered herself to the cul-de-sac.
Love is a natural outpouring, never to love with extra condition. Dobbie loves Polly because she is a potentially wonderful wife; Polly loves Petey, because he has a raccoon coat; Petey loves Polly, but betrays her for the sake a raccoon caot. They do love, but just love the thing not the owner himself. Assuming that, what if Dobbie still owns the raccoon coat? Frankly speaking, I do not know, either, for love is unpredictable. A coat can win a girlfriend and a girlfriend can be given up. there must be something wrong, this is not the love in my imagination.
To love someone is to accept his all, good or bad progress can be made together, yet don’t require changing or reshaping each other. Falling in love do not mean to become one, till, the two are unattached individuals with different characters and personalities. It is the difference that makes two people attracts each other, and it is the similarities that decide how well two persons can along with one another. And the one who loves frankly will voluntarily make some change. Like Darcy, my beloved character. He changed the way he behaves and talks. He did have some dissatisfaction about Elisabeth’s family condition and other brain-empty sisters, but never had he tried to change. What he loved is Elisabeth, with respect.
A real man, the kinds of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honor her like the valuable treasure she is; is a man who will not attempt to rip her precious of pearl from its protective shell, or persuade her to change.
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