Be An Optimist

Be An Optimist
 
 
 
If you change your mind - from pessimism to optimism - you can change your life. Do you see the glass as half-full rather than half empty? Do you keep your eye upon the doughnut,not upon the hole? Suddenly these cliches are scientific questions, as researchers scrutinize the power of positive thinking.
假如你转变你的想法-从悲观到乐观-你就能够改变你的生活. 你看到的是半杯水,还是空着的半个杯子?你的眼睛盯着的是炸面包圈,还是当中的圆洞?当研究者们详细检测积极思维的作用时,突然之间这些陈词滥调都成为了科学问题.
Research is proving that optimism can help you to be happier, healthier and more successful. Pessimism leads, by contrast, to hoplessness, sickness and failure, and is linked to depression, loneliness and painful shyness. If we could teach people to think more positively, it would be like inoculating them against these mental ills. Your habits count but the belief that you can succeed affects whether or not you will. In part, that's because optimists and pessimists deal with the same challenges and disappointments in very different ways.
研究证实, 乐观能够让你更加快乐,更加健康,更加成功.相反,悲观则会导致无望,疾病以及挫败; 其与消沉,孤独和使人痛苦的腼腆不无关系. 假如我们能够教导人们更加积极地去思考,那就会像给他们注射预防这些心理疾病的疫苗. 你的诸多习惯固然重要,但是你能够成功的信念影响着你是否真的会成功. 在某种程度上讲, 这是由于乐观主义者和悲观主义者以迥异的方式对待相同的挑战和失望.
When things go wrong the pessimist tends to blame himself." I'm not good at this." " I always fail." he would say. But the optimist looks for loopholes. Negative or positive, it was a self-fulfilling prophecy. If people feel hopeless they don't bother to acquire the skills they need to succeed.
当出了问题后,悲观主义者往往自我责备. 他会说:"我不擅长做这种事.""我总是失败." 但是乐观主义者则寻找疏漏之处. 不管是消极还是积极的想法,都是一种本身会得以实现的预言. 如果人们感觉毫无希望,那么他们就不会花费力气去获得成功所需要的技能。
A sense of control is the litmus test for success. The optimist feels in control of his own life. If things are going badly, he acts quickly, looking for solutions, forming a new plan of action, and reaching out for advice. The pessimist feels like fate's play thing and moves slowly. He doesn't seek advice, since he assumes nothing can be done.
有无掌控感是成功的试金石.乐观主义者感觉到能够掌控自己的命运. 如果事出不利,他立即作出反应,寻求解决办法,制定新的行动计划,而且主动去请教他人. 悲观主义者则感觉到自己只能任凭命运摆布, 行动起来拖拖拉拉. 既然认为无计可施,他便不去寻求他人的意见.
Many studies suggest that the pessimist's feeling of helplessness undermines the body's natural defenses, the immune system. Research has found that the pessimist doesn't take good care of himself. Feeling passive and unable to dodge life's blows,he expects ill health and other misfortunes, no matter what he does. He munches on junk food, avoids exercise, ignores the doctor, has another drink.
许多研究显示, 悲观主义者的无助感会损害人体的自然防御系统,即免疫系统. 研究发现,悲观主义者不会很好地照顾自己. 这种人消极被动, 不会避开生活中的打击,不管做什么都会担心身体不好或者其他灾祸降临. 他吞食着垃圾食品,逃避体育锻炼,忽视医生的劝告,总是要再贪一杯.
Most people are a mix of optimism and pessimism, but are inclined in one direction or the other. It is a pattern of thinking learned at our mothers' knees. It grows out of thousands of cautions or encouragements, negative statements or positive ones .Too many" don'ts" and warning of danger can make a child feel incompetent, fearful and pessimistic. Pessimism is a hard habit to break, but it can be done.
 在大多数人身上,乐观主义和悲观主义兼而有之,但总是更加倾向于其中之一. 这是在母亲膝下之时就已经形成的思维模式. 它源于千万次警告或者鼓励,积极的或者消极的话语.过多的不许和危险警告会让一个孩子感到无能,胆怯-以至于悲观. 悲观是一种难以克服的习惯 - 但是其并非不能够克服.
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