Premarital Counseling婚前辅导

1st Leave his father and mother (but you should care\contact\love your parents)
2nd Be united to his wife
①.unite together. ②.stick together. ③.keep the loyalty
3rd They will become one flesh
①as flesh against the bone②as the disease on the body③our spirits unite with Lord's spirit
4th Unite is the responsibility between you and your wife/husband
① Work together after wedding(like watch TV/read/surf the Internet/exercise, the most important: pray and read the Bible together)
② The third-party not only a person, but your behavior(like doing different things\spent many hours to your own hobby\ do not developing common interest)
③ The first is God, second is your spouse, the third is your child/career
5th Refuse any relationships which will be able to affect your marriage.
6th Cut off all your retreat after wedding(not eager to a more suitable lover of your life)
7th Choice unconditional union（choice the "no other choice")
8th Create the chances to get together after wedding(like date)
A man, a woman, a husband, a wife, a lifetime.
The order of the marriage is——in love——get married——in love
By Pastor Lu
Family church
2013.7.22