Up in the air
Anybody who ever built an empire or change the world sat where you are right now.and it's because they sat there they were able to do it.
每个建立了帝国或者改变过世界的人都经历过你现在的处境。也就是这种困境铸就了他们的成功。
Mr.Empty-backpack
What's in your backpack?How much does your weight?Imagine for a second that you're carrying a backpack.I want you to feel the straps on your shoulders.Feel them?Now I want you to pack it with all the stuff that you have in your life.Start with the little things,the things on shelves and in the drawers,the knick-knacks,the collectibles.Feel the weight as that adds up.Then you start adding larger stuff,clothes,table-top appliances,lamps,linens,your TV.The backpack should be getting pretty heavy now.And you go bigger.Your couch,bed,your kitchen table.Stuff it all in there.Your car,get in there;your home,whether it's a studio apartment or a two-bedroom house,I want you to stuff it all into that backpack.Now try to walk.It's kind of hard,isn's it?This is what we do to ourselves on a daily basis.We weight ourselves down until we can't even move.And make no mistake,moving is living.Now I'm gonna set that backpack on fire.What do you want to take out of it?Photos?Photos are for people who can't remember.Drink some gingo and let the photo burn.In fact,let everything burn and imagine,waking up tomorrow with nothing,it's kind of exhilarating,isn't it?This is how I start every day of my life.
Now this's gonna be little difficult,so stay with me.You have a new backpack. Only this time,I want you to fill it with people.Start with casual acquaintances,friends of friends,folks around the office and then you move into the people you trust with,your most secrets,your cousins,your aunts,your uncles,your brother,your sisters,your parents and finally your husband,wife,your boyfriend,your girlfriend.And get them into the backpack.Don't worry.I'm not gonna ask you to light it on fire.Feel the weight of that bag.Make no mistake,your relationship is the heaviest components in your life.Do you feel the straps cutting into your shoulders?All those negotiations and arguments and secrets and compromises,you don't need to carry it all that weight.Why don't you set that bag down?Some animals were meant to carry each other,to live symbiotically of a lifetime.,star-crossed lovers,monogamous swans.We are not those animals.Slower we move,the faster we die.We are not swans.We are sharks.
你的生活究竟有多重？想象一下你正背着一个背包，感受一下你肩上的压力，感觉到了吗？现在把你生活中所有的东西都装进去。先从小的东西开始，架子上抽屉里的小玩意，小摆设，收藏品，感受一下这些给你带来的压力。然后是大件的，衣服，餐具，灯，家纺和电视。背包应该已经很重了吧？还有更大的呢，沙发，床，餐桌。所有东西都塞进去，车也塞进去，房子，不论是一居室，还是两室的公寓，统统塞到背包里。现在背着它走两步，有点困难，不是吗？这就是我们每天都在做的事情。我们不堪重负无法前进。如果我没弄错，只有向前才是生活。现在我要烧了这个包。你想把什么拿出来？照片？有遗忘症的人才需要照片。喝点银杏酒烧了照片吧。实际上如果把它们全烧了，想象一下明早一无所有，非常让人愉快，不是吗？我就是这样开始我的每一天。
现在是有点困难，所以和我一起。你有了一个新的背包，这一次我想让你用人去填满它。从随意偶遇开始，朋友的朋友，办公室周围的伙计们，然后回到那些你最信任的人，你的兄弟姐妹父母，最后你的丈夫妻子，男女朋友，把他们放进包里，别担心，我不会让你放火烧了它。感受背包的重量。没错的话，你们的关系，是你们生活中最重的组成部分。感受到背包肩带深嵌在你的肩膀里吗？所有的妥协，争辩，秘密以及责任。你并不用承担所有的负担。为什么不放下你的包？有些动物打算一直背着彼此，一起过一辈子，时运不济的爱人，终生相伴的天鹅。我们不是这种动物。我们行动越慢，死的越快。我们不是天鹅。我们是鲨鱼。
I think it's time we see other people.
我觉得我们可以分手了。
We all fall for pricks.They're spontaneous,unpredictable and fun.Then we're surprised when they turn out to be pricks.
我们都会爱上混蛋的，他们很有野性，难于捉摸而且有趣。但发现他们是混蛋时我们依旧会惊讶。
When I was 16,I thought by 23 I's be married,maybe have a kid,corner office by day,enteraining at night.I was supposed to be driving a grand cherokee by now.
我16岁的时候觉得我23岁就会结婚，也许有个小孩，白天坐办公室，晚上休闲娱乐，我现在都应该能开上大切诺基了。
Life can underwhelm you that way.
生活可能就这样离你而去了。
At a certain point,we stop with a deadlines.It can be a little counterproductive.
在某个时候，你会被一个截止日期卡住。这就是不良后果。
But sometimes it feels like,no matter how much success I have,it's not gonna matter until I find the right guy.
但有时候我觉得如果我没找到命中注定的那个人，不管我有多成功都没意义。
You might not understand that now,but believe me,you will one day.
你也许现在不理解，但相信我，总有一天你能明白的。
Otherwise that's a recipe for disater.
否则那就是一枚定时炸弹。
I don't mind being married to my career.And I don't except it to hold me in bed as I fall asleep.I just don't want to settle.
我不介意一心扑在事业上。我也不指望谁抱着我睡觉。但我现在还不想安定下来。
You're young,right now you see settling as some sort of failure.
你还年轻,你认为安定下来对你来说是种失败。
But by the time someone is right for you,it won't feel like settling.And the only person left to judge you will be the 23-year-old girl with a target on your back.
在你遇到真命天子以前，你不会想要安定下来的。而唯一能做主的人，就是这个迷茫的23女孩。
You know taht moment when you look into someone's eyesand you can feel them starting into your soul and and the whole world goes quite just for a second
你是否有过和一个人对望时，仿佛他可以看穿你的灵魂而整个世界在那一瞬间就安静了？
The sooner you can tell yourself that greater opportunities are waiting for you.The sooner you trust the process,the sooner the next step of your life will unveil itself.
你越早接受现实，就会有越大的机遇在等待你。你越早接受这个事实就能越早踏入新的生活。
Last night I was just kinda like laying in bed and I couldn't get to sleep.So I started thinking about the wedding and the ceremory,and about buying a houseand moving in togetherand having a kidand then having another kid and then Chrismas and Thankgiving and Spring break,going to football games and then all of a sudden they're graduating.They're getting jobs,getting married.And you konw,I'm a grandparent.And then I'm retired.I'm losing my hair,I'm getting fat and then the next thing you know I'm dead.I can't stop from thinking.What's teh point?This all is just stuff that leads to your eventual demise.We're all on running clocks,and they can't be slowed down or paused.We all end up in the same place.There's no point.
昨晚我躺在床上难以入眠，于是我就开始考虑婚礼。然后买房子，然后住在一起，生孩子，然后再生一个孩子，一起过圣诞节感恩节和春假，一起去看足球比赛，突然有天他们毕业了，开始找工作，然后他们也结婚了，我就成爷爷了，退休后头发掉落，不断发胖，然后就死掉了。我不知道结婚多我有什么意义。这些最终的结果只能是死亡。我们都像在跑的时钟，你不可能让它慢下来或者暂停。我们最终的结局都一样。的却没有什么意义。
Life's better with company.
有人陪伴生活才会更美好。
Everybody needs a co-pilot.
每个人都需要个伴儿的。
Tonight most people will be welcomedhome by jumping dogs and squealing kids.Their spouses will ask about their day and tonight they'll sleep.The stars will wheel forth from their daytime hiding places.And one of those lights,slightly brighter than the rest,will be my wing tip passing over.
今晚很多人都会回家家里有蹦跳的小狗和尖叫的小孩,他们的配偶会问他们一天过得怎样，然后睡觉。星星会从白天隐身的地方转出来，有些星光会比其他的稍微亮一些，那就是我飞过的痕迹。
It's only a problem if you have a solution.
如果这是个问题，就有解决方法。
There's nothing cheap about loyalty.
忠实于一个品牌并不低俗。
Every family has one personWho keeps the genealogy in check,the glue.
每个家庭都有一个让家庭成员保持联系的人，粘合剂。
You are awefully isolated how you live.
你现在的生活方式与世隔绝。
Changes are always scareing.
改变总是令人恐惧。
Panic doesn't help anything.
恐慌没有任何用处。
We are here to make linbo tolerable,to ferry wounded souls across the river of dread until the point where hope is dimly visibale.And then stop the boat,shove them in the water and make them swim.
我们让地狱变得可以忍受，护送受伤的心灵渡过绝望的河流，到达一个几乎看不见希望的地方，然后我们停船把他们推进水里，让他们自己游走。
You know why kids love atheles?Because they follow their their dreams.
你知道孩子为什么从崇拜运动员吗？是因为他们追寻自己梦想。
每个建立了帝国或者改变过世界的人都经历过你现在的处境。也就是这种困境铸就了他们的成功。
Mr.Empty-backpack
What's in your backpack?How much does your weight?Imagine for a second that you're carrying a backpack.I want you to feel the straps on your shoulders.Feel them?Now I want you to pack it with all the stuff that you have in your life.Start with the little things,the things on shelves and in the drawers,the knick-knacks,the collectibles.Feel the weight as that adds up.Then you start adding larger stuff,clothes,table-top appliances,lamps,linens,your TV.The backpack should be getting pretty heavy now.And you go bigger.Your couch,bed,your kitchen table.Stuff it all in there.Your car,get in there;your home,whether it's a studio apartment or a two-bedroom house,I want you to stuff it all into that backpack.Now try to walk.It's kind of hard,isn's it?This is what we do to ourselves on a daily basis.We weight ourselves down until we can't even move.And make no mistake,moving is living.Now I'm gonna set that backpack on fire.What do you want to take out of it?Photos?Photos are for people who can't remember.Drink some gingo and let the photo burn.In fact,let everything burn and imagine,waking up tomorrow with nothing,it's kind of exhilarating,isn't it?This is how I start every day of my life.
Now this's gonna be little difficult,so stay with me.You have a new backpack. Only this time,I want you to fill it with people.Start with casual acquaintances,friends of friends,folks around the office and then you move into the people you trust with,your most secrets,your cousins,your aunts,your uncles,your brother,your sisters,your parents and finally your husband,wife,your boyfriend,your girlfriend.And get them into the backpack.Don't worry.I'm not gonna ask you to light it on fire.Feel the weight of that bag.Make no mistake,your relationship is the heaviest components in your life.Do you feel the straps cutting into your shoulders?All those negotiations and arguments and secrets and compromises,you don't need to carry it all that weight.Why don't you set that bag down?Some animals were meant to carry each other,to live symbiotically of a lifetime.,star-crossed lovers,monogamous swans.We are not those animals.Slower we move,the faster we die.We are not swans.We are sharks.
你的生活究竟有多重？想象一下你正背着一个背包，感受一下你肩上的压力，感觉到了吗？现在把你生活中所有的东西都装进去。先从小的东西开始，架子上抽屉里的小玩意，小摆设，收藏品，感受一下这些给你带来的压力。然后是大件的，衣服，餐具，灯，家纺和电视。背包应该已经很重了吧？还有更大的呢，沙发，床，餐桌。所有东西都塞进去，车也塞进去，房子，不论是一居室，还是两室的公寓，统统塞到背包里。现在背着它走两步，有点困难，不是吗？这就是我们每天都在做的事情。我们不堪重负无法前进。如果我没弄错，只有向前才是生活。现在我要烧了这个包。你想把什么拿出来？照片？有遗忘症的人才需要照片。喝点银杏酒烧了照片吧。实际上如果把它们全烧了，想象一下明早一无所有，非常让人愉快，不是吗？我就是这样开始我的每一天。
现在是有点困难，所以和我一起。你有了一个新的背包，这一次我想让你用人去填满它。从随意偶遇开始，朋友的朋友，办公室周围的伙计们，然后回到那些你最信任的人，你的兄弟姐妹父母，最后你的丈夫妻子，男女朋友，把他们放进包里，别担心，我不会让你放火烧了它。感受背包的重量。没错的话，你们的关系，是你们生活中最重的组成部分。感受到背包肩带深嵌在你的肩膀里吗？所有的妥协，争辩，秘密以及责任。你并不用承担所有的负担。为什么不放下你的包？有些动物打算一直背着彼此，一起过一辈子，时运不济的爱人，终生相伴的天鹅。我们不是这种动物。我们行动越慢，死的越快。我们不是天鹅。我们是鲨鱼。
I think it's time we see other people.
我觉得我们可以分手了。
We all fall for pricks.They're spontaneous,unpredictable and fun.Then we're surprised when they turn out to be pricks.
我们都会爱上混蛋的，他们很有野性，难于捉摸而且有趣。但发现他们是混蛋时我们依旧会惊讶。
When I was 16,I thought by 23 I's be married,maybe have a kid,corner office by day,enteraining at night.I was supposed to be driving a grand cherokee by now.
我16岁的时候觉得我23岁就会结婚，也许有个小孩，白天坐办公室，晚上休闲娱乐，我现在都应该能开上大切诺基了。
Life can underwhelm you that way.
生活可能就这样离你而去了。
At a certain point,we stop with a deadlines.It can be a little counterproductive.
在某个时候，你会被一个截止日期卡住。这就是不良后果。
But sometimes it feels like,no matter how much success I have,it's not gonna matter until I find the right guy.
但有时候我觉得如果我没找到命中注定的那个人，不管我有多成功都没意义。
You might not understand that now,but believe me,you will one day.
你也许现在不理解，但相信我，总有一天你能明白的。
Otherwise that's a recipe for disater.
否则那就是一枚定时炸弹。
I don't mind being married to my career.And I don't except it to hold me in bed as I fall asleep.I just don't want to settle.
我不介意一心扑在事业上。我也不指望谁抱着我睡觉。但我现在还不想安定下来。
You're young,right now you see settling as some sort of failure.
你还年轻,你认为安定下来对你来说是种失败。
But by the time someone is right for you,it won't feel like settling.And the only person left to judge you will be the 23-year-old girl with a target on your back.
在你遇到真命天子以前，你不会想要安定下来的。而唯一能做主的人，就是这个迷茫的23女孩。
You know taht moment when you look into someone's eyesand you can feel them starting into your soul and and the whole world goes quite just for a second
你是否有过和一个人对望时，仿佛他可以看穿你的灵魂而整个世界在那一瞬间就安静了？
The sooner you can tell yourself that greater opportunities are waiting for you.The sooner you trust the process,the sooner the next step of your life will unveil itself.
你越早接受现实，就会有越大的机遇在等待你。你越早接受这个事实就能越早踏入新的生活。
Last night I was just kinda like laying in bed and I couldn't get to sleep.So I started thinking about the wedding and the ceremory,and about buying a houseand moving in togetherand having a kidand then having another kid and then Chrismas and Thankgiving and Spring break,going to football games and then all of a sudden they're graduating.They're getting jobs,getting married.And you konw,I'm a grandparent.And then I'm retired.I'm losing my hair,I'm getting fat and then the next thing you know I'm dead.I can't stop from thinking.What's teh point?This all is just stuff that leads to your eventual demise.We're all on running clocks,and they can't be slowed down or paused.We all end up in the same place.There's no point.
昨晚我躺在床上难以入眠，于是我就开始考虑婚礼。然后买房子，然后住在一起，生孩子，然后再生一个孩子，一起过圣诞节感恩节和春假，一起去看足球比赛，突然有天他们毕业了，开始找工作，然后他们也结婚了，我就成爷爷了，退休后头发掉落，不断发胖，然后就死掉了。我不知道结婚多我有什么意义。这些最终的结果只能是死亡。我们都像在跑的时钟，你不可能让它慢下来或者暂停。我们最终的结局都一样。的却没有什么意义。
Life's better with company.
有人陪伴生活才会更美好。
Everybody needs a co-pilot.
每个人都需要个伴儿的。
Tonight most people will be welcomedhome by jumping dogs and squealing kids.Their spouses will ask about their day and tonight they'll sleep.The stars will wheel forth from their daytime hiding places.And one of those lights,slightly brighter than the rest,will be my wing tip passing over.
今晚很多人都会回家家里有蹦跳的小狗和尖叫的小孩,他们的配偶会问他们一天过得怎样，然后睡觉。星星会从白天隐身的地方转出来，有些星光会比其他的稍微亮一些，那就是我飞过的痕迹。
It's only a problem if you have a solution.
如果这是个问题，就有解决方法。
There's nothing cheap about loyalty.
忠实于一个品牌并不低俗。
Every family has one personWho keeps the genealogy in check,the glue.
每个家庭都有一个让家庭成员保持联系的人，粘合剂。
You are awefully isolated how you live.
你现在的生活方式与世隔绝。
Changes are always scareing.
改变总是令人恐惧。
Panic doesn't help anything.
恐慌没有任何用处。
We are here to make linbo tolerable,to ferry wounded souls across the river of dread until the point where hope is dimly visibale.And then stop the boat,shove them in the water and make them swim.
我们让地狱变得可以忍受，护送受伤的心灵渡过绝望的河流，到达一个几乎看不见希望的地方，然后我们停船把他们推进水里，让他们自己游走。
You know why kids love atheles?Because they follow their their dreams.
你知道孩子为什么从崇拜运动员吗？是因为他们追寻自己梦想。
