非言语交际

The main feature of nonverbal communication, in my point of view, in one word says it never rains but it pours.

Especially in intimate relationship, this feature is more obvious, on a date,we're looking at each other's faces, and one of the things that's interesting is.

as we scan, we also look at the lips when we're very comfortable around each other so much so that when we kiss we actually feel the warmth.

When we are dating most of our decisions are really based on non-verbal’s, how they look? Does this person have a good manner? Are they well behaved? We cannot escape this; this is part of our being human, this is part of our heritage.

If we fall in love with someone, we’ll always look into the eyes of each other, at this time,pupils will dilate, that’s because they see something beautiful, so the more that we like each other the more of the scanning that takes place.

Not just in the intimate relationships of real world, in the net world, it is the same thing, in some cases, encounters on the internet can also be an opportunity for intimate relationship, and that is very common in the age when people’s distance is farther and farther away from each other, phone calls are one of the few non-verbal communication scenarios in online dating, I mean, although phone calls are primarily verbal, long phone conversations in the phone dating can create a lot of vacuums, and that vacuums are non-verbal communication, just think about that, air, breathing, environment noise, all of these things are just in another side of phone, this nonverbal is what creates empathy of each other.

Love is a long long road, some things are hard to control, maybe some things are never enough, but there is only one thing we can do, that is looking into each other’s eyes.