When you know the game...
There's a saying "When you play the game of the thrones, you win or you die. There is no middle ground. "
What about our love &(/) marrige?
As so many people choose to make it into a big exam of life, I have to admit that I get confused about the meaning of this love &(/) marrige at some extent.
As a qualified teacher, of course it's easy for me to found some patterns of the game.
Firstly, only the brave people willing to join it, too many people being scared of or feeling troubled for get into it. You two need right time.
Secondly, when you choose to make it into a test, you‘ll tends to find the right people as your answer of life, because you know you doesn't want to fail or you just want to get high score in this exam.
You wish this will be your final exam and you take it really seriously, but what makes you can guarantee for your world, your position, your heart won't change forever?
Thirdly, the exam is based on your life book, but everyone gets different life experience,without understanding your past and now at first, makes solve problems in this exam getting more and more complicated and difficult.
Here's three basic kinds of question in the exam: 选择题、填空题、解答题。
有些事实大概是人心总是摇摆不定,也许有些时候不是单选而是多选,也许过一段时间失去新鲜后会想换考卷,也许这份综合考卷的设置远比学校的任何测试来得harder。
It's all up to you...