on being queer
1. biological relationship =/= caring relationship; caring relationship >> biological relationship
2. being queer entails strong perceptive capacity & reliable sensitivity (ie class is not the elephant in the room)
3. one experiences one's body just like one experiences time - you don't feel the way you're supposed to feel; you feel what you actually feel.
4. if one believes 1, 2, and 3, then one is a queer.