札记。
“人与人之间情断义绝，并不需要什么具体的理由。就算表面上有，也很可能只是心已经离开的结果，事后才编造出的借口而已。”
---东野圭吾 《解忧杂货店》
考完试后在家无所事事，想着自己从未完整看一遍《老友记》，决定再追一遍。于是日复一日的追剧，看着他们分手结婚生子，像是陪剧中人物经历了人生。感动的片段很多，大概也是为什么这么多人奉这部剧为经典。印象最深的片段有两个，第一是莫妮卡和钱德勒要结婚的时候，莫妮卡希望钱德勒把所有积蓄花在一场婚礼上，两人爆发了争吵。
Chandler: Look, I thought about it too, and I’m sorry. I think we should spend all of the money on the wedding., when I proposed I told you that I would do anything to make you happy, and if having the perfect wedding makes you happy then, then that’s what we’re gonna do.
Monica: Oh, you’re so sweet. But wait, what about the future and stuff?
Chandler: Eh, forget about the future and stuff! So we only have two kids, y’know? We’ll pick our favorite and that one will get to go to college.
Monica: You thought about that?
Chandler: Yeah.
Monica: How many kids were we gonna have?
Chandler: Uh, four, a boy, twin girls and another boy.
Monica: What else did you think about?
Chandler: Well, stuff like where’d we live, y’know? Like a small place outside the city, where our kids could learn to ride their bikes and stuff. Y’know, we could have a cat that had a bell on it’s collar and we could hear it every time it ran through the little kitty door. Of course, we’d have an apartment over the garage where Joey could grow old.
Monica: You know what? I-I don’t want a big, fancy wedding.
Chandler: Sure you do.
Monica: No, I want everything you just said. I want a marriage.
就像Monica说的那样，" i dont believe in soul mates. We werent destinated to end up together. We fell in love and work hard at our relationship."
另一个片段是当rachel得到在巴黎的工作，ross本想挽留但看到她如此激动而决定让她走。拥抱的时候rachel说, "oh im so happy." ross的眼神黯淡却说" then i am happy too."
这两对情侣分分合合许多闹剧，最终都修成眷属。大概Friends最吸引人的地方便在于，这里面的每一个人都是如此活生生地贴近我们。他们都是各自有缺陷的普通人，和我们一样在学着如何爱和生活。
在看了《黄金时代》后，有一天偶然在多伦多的公立图书馆发现了萧红的《呼兰河传》书并不厚，回家闲散时翻看不出几日就看完了。只感叹彼时的萧红孤身处于战乱纷纷的香港，思绪却直抵纯净的童年。知道了她的命运，再读她言语中透出的悲凉，只让人唏嘘不知滋味。
“逆来顺受，你说我的生命可惜，我自己却不在乎。你看着很危险，我却自以为得意。不得意又怎样？人生本来就是苦多乐少。满天星光，满屋月亮，人生何如，为什么这么悲凉。”
---萧红 《呼兰河传》
---东野圭吾 《解忧杂货店》
考完试后在家无所事事，想着自己从未完整看一遍《老友记》，决定再追一遍。于是日复一日的追剧，看着他们分手结婚生子，像是陪剧中人物经历了人生。感动的片段很多，大概也是为什么这么多人奉这部剧为经典。印象最深的片段有两个，第一是莫妮卡和钱德勒要结婚的时候，莫妮卡希望钱德勒把所有积蓄花在一场婚礼上，两人爆发了争吵。
Chandler: Look, I thought about it too, and I’m sorry. I think we should spend all of the money on the wedding., when I proposed I told you that I would do anything to make you happy, and if having the perfect wedding makes you happy then, then that’s what we’re gonna do.
Monica: Oh, you’re so sweet. But wait, what about the future and stuff?
Chandler: Eh, forget about the future and stuff! So we only have two kids, y’know? We’ll pick our favorite and that one will get to go to college.
Monica: You thought about that?
Chandler: Yeah.
Monica: How many kids were we gonna have?
Chandler: Uh, four, a boy, twin girls and another boy.
Monica: What else did you think about?
Chandler: Well, stuff like where’d we live, y’know? Like a small place outside the city, where our kids could learn to ride their bikes and stuff. Y’know, we could have a cat that had a bell on it’s collar and we could hear it every time it ran through the little kitty door. Of course, we’d have an apartment over the garage where Joey could grow old.
Monica: You know what? I-I don’t want a big, fancy wedding.
Chandler: Sure you do.
Monica: No, I want everything you just said. I want a marriage.
就像Monica说的那样，" i dont believe in soul mates. We werent destinated to end up together. We fell in love and work hard at our relationship."
另一个片段是当rachel得到在巴黎的工作，ross本想挽留但看到她如此激动而决定让她走。拥抱的时候rachel说, "oh im so happy." ross的眼神黯淡却说" then i am happy too."
这两对情侣分分合合许多闹剧，最终都修成眷属。大概Friends最吸引人的地方便在于，这里面的每一个人都是如此活生生地贴近我们。他们都是各自有缺陷的普通人，和我们一样在学着如何爱和生活。
在看了《黄金时代》后，有一天偶然在多伦多的公立图书馆发现了萧红的《呼兰河传》书并不厚，回家闲散时翻看不出几日就看完了。只感叹彼时的萧红孤身处于战乱纷纷的香港，思绪却直抵纯净的童年。知道了她的命运，再读她言语中透出的悲凉，只让人唏嘘不知滋味。
“逆来顺受，你说我的生命可惜，我自己却不在乎。你看着很危险，我却自以为得意。不得意又怎样？人生本来就是苦多乐少。满天星光，满屋月亮，人生何如，为什么这么悲凉。”
---萧红 《呼兰河传》
