TED笔记—5种倾听的方法
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5种简单有效训练倾听的方式：
listen and connect :
- silence：just three minutes a day of silence is a wonderful exercice to reset yout ears and to recalibrate so that you can hear the quiet again.
- mixer：how many individual channels in that mix am I listening to ? u can do it in a beautigul place as well ,like in a lake . How many birds am I hearing ? where are they ? where are those tipples ?---this can improve the quality of your listening .
- savoring ： Its about enjoying mundane sounds ,eg: dryer , coffee grinder , so mundane sounds can be really interesting if you pay attention . I call that hidden choir . Its around us all the time .
- listen positions :
- active / passive
- reductive / expansive
- critical / empathetic
......
palying with those filters ,u can move your listening position to whats appropriate to what you're listening to .
- RASA which is a Sanskrit word for juice or essence . RASA stands for ：
- recive ,which means to pay attentin to the person .
- appreciate ,making little noises like "hmm","oh","okay"
- summarize ,the word "so" is very important in commiunication
- ask ,ask quetions afterwards
#转自网友：
- 第一：“安静”，即在一个相对安静的环境中让自己静下来。比如静坐。
- 第二：“混合器”即在幽静或者嘈杂的环境中练习自己能听出多少独立声音的能力。
- 第三：“品味声音”即品味日常生活中平常的声音，用心去听，听出旋律，听出感觉。
- 第四：“倾听状态”即我们以什么样的状态去听，可以根据不同的情况调整用不同的状态。比如：积极主动的状态，消极被动的状态，批评挑剔的状态，同理心的状态等等。
- 第五：“RASA”即RECEIVE 关注与你交谈的人； APPRECITE 赏识，要做出反应，比如 对，不错等。 SUMMARISE 做出小结，总结一下他说的话和要表达的意思； ASK 询问，问一些问题更好的理解。
注：可以讲演讲中提到的方法与《非暴力沟通》中提到的沟通技巧对比着看，增进理解。
5种简单有效训练倾听的方式：
listen and connect :
- silence：just three minutes a day of silence is a wonderful exercice to reset yout ears and to recalibrate so that you can hear the quiet again.
- mixer：how many individual channels in that mix am I listening to ? u can do it in a beautigul place as well ,like in a lake . How many birds am I hearing ? where are they ? where are those tipples ?---this can improve the quality of your listening .
- savoring ： Its about enjoying mundane sounds ,eg: dryer , coffee grinder , so mundane sounds can be really interesting if you pay attention . I call that hidden choir . Its around us all the time .
- listen positions :
- active / passive
- reductive / expansive
- critical / empathetic
......
palying with those filters ,u can move your listening position to whats appropriate to what you're listening to .
- RASA which is a Sanskrit word for juice or essence . RASA stands for ：
- recive ,which means to pay attentin to the person .
- appreciate ,making little noises like "hmm","oh","okay"
- summarize ,the word "so" is very important in commiunication
- ask ,ask quetions afterwards
#转自网友：
- 第一：“安静”，即在一个相对安静的环境中让自己静下来。比如静坐。
- 第二：“混合器”即在幽静或者嘈杂的环境中练习自己能听出多少独立声音的能力。
- 第三：“品味声音”即品味日常生活中平常的声音，用心去听，听出旋律，听出感觉。
- 第四：“倾听状态”即我们以什么样的状态去听，可以根据不同的情况调整用不同的状态。比如：积极主动的状态，消极被动的状态，批评挑剔的状态，同理心的状态等等。
- 第五：“RASA”即RECEIVE 关注与你交谈的人； APPRECITE 赏识，要做出反应，比如 对，不错等。 SUMMARISE 做出小结，总结一下他说的话和要表达的意思； ASK 询问，问一些问题更好的理解。
注：可以讲演讲中提到的方法与《非暴力沟通》中提到的沟通技巧对比着看，增进理解。
