如何让自己在职场上受欢迎
这不是一个full list，只是身边有这么一个神人。相处了一段时间，觉得不把这些从他身上观察到的东西写下来，学习，就可惜了。
1. always full of energy
2. always becomes the expert of what you are working on; take full advantage of learning things from ppl around you
3. never disclose any intention of gaining personal interest; never afraid of losing anything.
4. good at challenging ppl and being challenged; earn respect from expertise
Social skill
1. always give others impression that you give them first priority
2. Frequently express you appreciate/love someone in front of others; words get around. it does no harm to the ppl who hear it or who are being appreciated
3. good at telling the story; details make the things more real and memorable
4. ready for self-depreciating;
5. don't care about trivial things; be generous to your colleagues.
6. this is a magic line when you try to convince others to do something: "I am very impressed by your capability/xxxx...if you do xxxx, i believe you will do it amazingly. it will be very good for your career."
7. here is another one if you have some power already: "I won't let anything happen to you, ok? do you think i will let anyone hurt you without giving a s**t? believe me!"
8. Another one making ppl feel privilege "if you do xxx, I'll do xxx"
9. say something "insight" during private conversation. Depending on who you r talking to, spilling something known from insider will make ppl think you trust them. In return, they will trust you
1. always full of energy
2. always becomes the expert of what you are working on; take full advantage of learning things from ppl around you
3. never disclose any intention of gaining personal interest; never afraid of losing anything.
4. good at challenging ppl and being challenged; earn respect from expertise
Social skill
1. always give others impression that you give them first priority
2. Frequently express you appreciate/love someone in front of others; words get around. it does no harm to the ppl who hear it or who are being appreciated
3. good at telling the story; details make the things more real and memorable
4. ready for self-depreciating;
5. don't care about trivial things; be generous to your colleagues.
6. this is a magic line when you try to convince others to do something: "I am very impressed by your capability/xxxx...if you do xxxx, i believe you will do it amazingly. it will be very good for your career."
7. here is another one if you have some power already: "I won't let anything happen to you, ok? do you think i will let anyone hurt you without giving a s**t? believe me!"
8. Another one making ppl feel privilege "if you do xxx, I'll do xxx"
9. say something "insight" during private conversation. Depending on who you r talking to, spilling something known from insider will make ppl think you trust them. In return, they will trust you
