女性主义启蒙之七：Lawrence Neal / 我善養吾浩然之氣
Lawrence Neal其实是一个小男孩的名字，来自电视剧<The Guardian> s1e3. 他与男主角的对话大致如下：
Nick Fallin：你妈妈做了什么要去坐牢？
Lawrence Neal： 你知道，有些男人没有女朋友，他们就花钱请我妈妈去当他们的女朋友。
写这集台词的人真是厉害。让人佩服。
我十七岁时候曾在高中论坛上跟人吵过妓女非罪化这个问题，印象中似乎是我势单力薄的对着几个男学长，然后被骂了婊子。其它的污言秽语就不太有印象了，大多没什么创新。当时我跟同学说起对这件事的反应，用了‘面红耳赤’和‘唾面自干’这两个词。
十八时认识的姑娘，曾在15岁时被人孤立，在年级里被说成‘去某宾馆被老男人开了苞’。她没有示弱，抢在开班会前几分钟，当着所有人的面，扇了造谣的女孩几巴掌，让她以后不要在胡说八道。后来她说，我不在乎被孤立，真跟这些渣滓玩还嫌丢人呢。但是伤害我的人就得付出代价。
曾看刘瑜说，除了被命运的反复羞辱，女性是认识不到独立的重要性的。
被命运的反复羞辱。我只是做了我认为对的事情；我并没有做错任何事情，然而被羞辱不是错的那方，而是我们。
可是，我不需要同情，我不需要你的理解。我从来没有把自己视为弱者，所以我被伤害时才认为这是羞辱，因为我与你一样是一个有荣誉感的人。
当在法庭上Lawrence Neal生理父亲出现，希望得到这个瘫痪孩子一年的抚养权时说，我希望这个孩子可以到正常的家庭生活。Lawrence 妈妈一怒之下站起来说，什么叫正常，你是顾客，区别在于我做这个交易是为了桌上的食物，而你是为了性？
Lawrence 是瘫痪的，后来这个生理上的爸爸跟他说，你知道吗，你跟我哥哥很像。Lawrence说，是吗，他也喜欢摩托车吗？这个爸爸说，不，我意思是说，他也坐在轮椅上。Lawrence 把轮椅往后挪了挪，拉开和他的距离说：那不是我， 那只是我的病。
这十年间，遭受到这个保守价值观狭隘的社会的更多羞辱。有时我想，多多少少我让人听到了不同的声音，反对的意见。
自反而縮，雖千萬人，吾往矣。
我曾反感自己女性敏感细腻，后来却感激它带予我仁慈。
Keep welfare distinct from rightness.
Lawrence Neal is a boy's name, came from TV series <The guardian> S1E3. He is a boy landed on his wheelchair, as he's got a spine sickness. Here is the first dialogue：
Nick Fallin：What did she do?
Lawrence Neal: You know how some men don't have a girlfriend, they pay my mom to be theirs.
That's a fabulous line we're talking here.
I was 17, and fighting with some male seniors on highschool internet forum about the prostitution decriminalization. And the very end of discussion, they called me cunts. I reckon there are some other cursing words, most of them are not very creative, so I don't remember. Afterwards I told this to my classmate by using 'blushing face' and 'Turn the other cheek' to describe my feelings.
When I was 18, I met some girl who was isolated by all the peers at 15 yrs old, and backstabbed by her once-best-friend as 'deflowered by some old man'. She didn't turn her other cheek, she waited, catched the moment all the people was gathered, slapped the girl who made the gossips, told her to never bring sth stupid like that. She told me that she didn't care to be isolated by those inferior people, but if they hurt her, she'd let them pay for it.
LiuYu once said, excep being humiliated by the fate over and over, girls can never learn they have to be independent.
Being humiliated over and over.
I did something I think I'm right; I got blame for something I never did; I'm the one got humiliated instead of people who did wrong.
I no need people's compassion, I no need people's empathy. I've never seen myself fragile, therefore when I got hurt, I consider it's humiliation. I'm thw same people who've got a honor belief like you do. Thanks for being condescending ass.
When lawrence's physiological dad showed up want one year custody,
he said 'Let him to live among regular people for once'.
Fallin asked 'By regular people, you mean what?'
Lawrence's mom was immediately irrated, she shouted 'I'm not regular? I'm a criminal'
'I guess so'
'But you're the customer, the difference is I did the trade for the food on the table, you just for the sex. '
After the verdict, the father approached Lawrence said 'My brother, ya know, he's like you..'
Lawrence said 'He likes motorcycles? '
'No, I mean he has what you have. '
'That's my disease, that's not me. '
These 10 years, I've got humiliated more than I expected from the narrow-valued society. Sometime, I pondered, more or less, I let people know that there are different opinions, objections.
If I reflect on myself and find that to be right, then even if it be an army ahead, I'll go forward.
I once displeased with my sensational and emotional female sides, now I'm grateful that gives me mercy and empathy.
女性主义启蒙之六：商三官
回目录
Nick Fallin：你妈妈做了什么要去坐牢？
Lawrence Neal： 你知道，有些男人没有女朋友，他们就花钱请我妈妈去当他们的女朋友。
写这集台词的人真是厉害。让人佩服。
我十七岁时候曾在高中论坛上跟人吵过妓女非罪化这个问题，印象中似乎是我势单力薄的对着几个男学长，然后被骂了婊子。其它的污言秽语就不太有印象了，大多没什么创新。当时我跟同学说起对这件事的反应，用了‘面红耳赤’和‘唾面自干’这两个词。
十八时认识的姑娘，曾在15岁时被人孤立，在年级里被说成‘去某宾馆被老男人开了苞’。她没有示弱，抢在开班会前几分钟，当着所有人的面，扇了造谣的女孩几巴掌，让她以后不要在胡说八道。后来她说，我不在乎被孤立，真跟这些渣滓玩还嫌丢人呢。但是伤害我的人就得付出代价。
曾看刘瑜说，除了被命运的反复羞辱，女性是认识不到独立的重要性的。
被命运的反复羞辱。我只是做了我认为对的事情；我并没有做错任何事情，然而被羞辱不是错的那方，而是我们。
可是，我不需要同情，我不需要你的理解。我从来没有把自己视为弱者，所以我被伤害时才认为这是羞辱，因为我与你一样是一个有荣誉感的人。
当在法庭上Lawrence Neal生理父亲出现，希望得到这个瘫痪孩子一年的抚养权时说，我希望这个孩子可以到正常的家庭生活。Lawrence 妈妈一怒之下站起来说，什么叫正常，你是顾客，区别在于我做这个交易是为了桌上的食物，而你是为了性？
Lawrence 是瘫痪的，后来这个生理上的爸爸跟他说，你知道吗，你跟我哥哥很像。Lawrence说，是吗，他也喜欢摩托车吗？这个爸爸说，不，我意思是说，他也坐在轮椅上。Lawrence 把轮椅往后挪了挪，拉开和他的距离说：那不是我， 那只是我的病。
这十年间，遭受到这个保守价值观狭隘的社会的更多羞辱。有时我想，多多少少我让人听到了不同的声音，反对的意见。
自反而縮，雖千萬人，吾往矣。
我曾反感自己女性敏感细腻，后来却感激它带予我仁慈。
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The Old Guitarist by Picasso |
Keep welfare distinct from rightness.
Lawrence Neal is a boy's name, came from TV series <The guardian> S1E3. He is a boy landed on his wheelchair, as he's got a spine sickness. Here is the first dialogue：
Nick Fallin：What did she do?
Lawrence Neal: You know how some men don't have a girlfriend, they pay my mom to be theirs.
That's a fabulous line we're talking here.
I was 17, and fighting with some male seniors on highschool internet forum about the prostitution decriminalization. And the very end of discussion, they called me cunts. I reckon there are some other cursing words, most of them are not very creative, so I don't remember. Afterwards I told this to my classmate by using 'blushing face' and 'Turn the other cheek' to describe my feelings.
When I was 18, I met some girl who was isolated by all the peers at 15 yrs old, and backstabbed by her once-best-friend as 'deflowered by some old man'. She didn't turn her other cheek, she waited, catched the moment all the people was gathered, slapped the girl who made the gossips, told her to never bring sth stupid like that. She told me that she didn't care to be isolated by those inferior people, but if they hurt her, she'd let them pay for it.
LiuYu once said, excep being humiliated by the fate over and over, girls can never learn they have to be independent.
Being humiliated over and over.
I did something I think I'm right; I got blame for something I never did; I'm the one got humiliated instead of people who did wrong.
I no need people's compassion, I no need people's empathy. I've never seen myself fragile, therefore when I got hurt, I consider it's humiliation. I'm thw same people who've got a honor belief like you do. Thanks for being condescending ass.
When lawrence's physiological dad showed up want one year custody,
he said 'Let him to live among regular people for once'.
Fallin asked 'By regular people, you mean what?'
Lawrence's mom was immediately irrated, she shouted 'I'm not regular? I'm a criminal'
'I guess so'
'But you're the customer, the difference is I did the trade for the food on the table, you just for the sex. '
After the verdict, the father approached Lawrence said 'My brother, ya know, he's like you..'
Lawrence said 'He likes motorcycles? '
'No, I mean he has what you have. '
'That's my disease, that's not me. '
These 10 years, I've got humiliated more than I expected from the narrow-valued society. Sometime, I pondered, more or less, I let people know that there are different opinions, objections.
If I reflect on myself and find that to be right, then even if it be an army ahead, I'll go forward.
I once displeased with my sensational and emotional female sides, now I'm grateful that gives me mercy and empathy.
女性主义启蒙之六：商三官
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