About Double Available
It's been my last week here working in the company and have almost completed job training. Last Wednesday, I was invited to a dinner offered by manager and manager's house mates, who are also junior managers in the company. The meal was deliberately prepared and we enjoyed nice dishes. Over the meal, we talked about work, management, and also life. There were two questions directly proposed by Chen er that just came not so surprisingly. It was not my first time to be asked about it, however, the face thickness never enough mentor's mentee emily still felt a bit embarrassed with it. Well, after answering all the questions honestly, Chen er didn't set any more difficult questions for me. When we arrived home separately, I texted to Chen er about personal opinion about career planning and relationships, in the hopes that he can partly convey my messages to him after I finished my last day. I hope my explanation can help solve some of people's confustion. Well, I am glad that He er partly understands why I decided to quit.
After exchanging messages with Chen er, I was also talking with uncle teengen about the affair and that I had handled it. Uncle Teengen had encouraged me to join in the meal while Linda suggested me passing it in the hopes to save the cost for He er. Of course, I took uncle Teengen's decision. Uncle has a lot of life experience and uncle always looks cool. Uncle was frank that he was conquerred by auntie by the age of 19... and for the past 30 years uncle teengen had supported auntie financially monthly. Wow~ after talking to uncle that whether available to married. people have their own botherings and problems. I am no exception. As with my cousin, they need to restart their life after their wedding last Sunday and pay off their debt. It was not a small amount and well, some people have to take care of the bill. On hearing this, uncle gave his opinion and well, I believe that everything happens for a reason. On condition that cousin's couple live a happy life, they would have the courage and confidence to meet all the challenges of life.
When I joked with uncle Teengen that dad smokes expensive cigars and saves expensive wine though he personally doesn't drink due to stomach problem. Uncle Teengen responded that a boyfriend can solve all the problem. err... that is not the right approach to get things done, as I suppose. LOL I had posted a message on my qq and other social media accounts that It's been with wisdom and courage that we can tell a chance or not concerning career or relationship. If it were not, go ahead with what is awaiting for us as this is life simply saying. This is life anyway. That can explain why people are leftover, or say available. LoL-for bromeo The message was created specially for He er that when I first discussed with Uncle Teengen about my affair, uncle Teengen suggested going ahead. In respond, I decided to explain that I didn't take it as a chance and that it would not affect my decision. All in all, I as well as many of my friends that we would never mean to hurt anybody, though sometimes the harm cannot be avoided when we had already made the decision. I still remember the other day talking with bromeo, that we are not leftovers. We are just available, though it could not be an effective excuse to persuade dad and mom back to new year festival. Well, one another concept is that being available doesn't mean to open to anybody. Everybody chooses to be available for a reason, and I was trying to investigate the reasons of yangyang and dafo the other day, however, I didn't get any direct respond from them. I suppose we can actually help unless we understand the deep reasons that they choose to remain single. Well well, it's been everybody's choice and we all should understand the price of missing something and having something; probably it is about the balance and focus. When we decide to remove our focus from career to relationships, we will take action therefore. When we make no changes, we would remain our focus on whatever the focus. And I think that's part of the concept of first priority, though I was currently placed in a really difficult situation.
Well, whatever the choices, we are all like to move on with each life, and with smile.
By Emily Cai Qing
Jan.23rd, 2014
After exchanging messages with Chen er, I was also talking with uncle teengen about the affair and that I had handled it. Uncle Teengen had encouraged me to join in the meal while Linda suggested me passing it in the hopes to save the cost for He er. Of course, I took uncle Teengen's decision. Uncle has a lot of life experience and uncle always looks cool. Uncle was frank that he was conquerred by auntie by the age of 19... and for the past 30 years uncle teengen had supported auntie financially monthly. Wow~ after talking to uncle that whether available to married. people have their own botherings and problems. I am no exception. As with my cousin, they need to restart their life after their wedding last Sunday and pay off their debt. It was not a small amount and well, some people have to take care of the bill. On hearing this, uncle gave his opinion and well, I believe that everything happens for a reason. On condition that cousin's couple live a happy life, they would have the courage and confidence to meet all the challenges of life.
When I joked with uncle Teengen that dad smokes expensive cigars and saves expensive wine though he personally doesn't drink due to stomach problem. Uncle Teengen responded that a boyfriend can solve all the problem. err... that is not the right approach to get things done, as I suppose. LOL I had posted a message on my qq and other social media accounts that It's been with wisdom and courage that we can tell a chance or not concerning career or relationship. If it were not, go ahead with what is awaiting for us as this is life simply saying. This is life anyway. That can explain why people are leftover, or say available. LoL-for bromeo The message was created specially for He er that when I first discussed with Uncle Teengen about my affair, uncle Teengen suggested going ahead. In respond, I decided to explain that I didn't take it as a chance and that it would not affect my decision. All in all, I as well as many of my friends that we would never mean to hurt anybody, though sometimes the harm cannot be avoided when we had already made the decision. I still remember the other day talking with bromeo, that we are not leftovers. We are just available, though it could not be an effective excuse to persuade dad and mom back to new year festival. Well, one another concept is that being available doesn't mean to open to anybody. Everybody chooses to be available for a reason, and I was trying to investigate the reasons of yangyang and dafo the other day, however, I didn't get any direct respond from them. I suppose we can actually help unless we understand the deep reasons that they choose to remain single. Well well, it's been everybody's choice and we all should understand the price of missing something and having something; probably it is about the balance and focus. When we decide to remove our focus from career to relationships, we will take action therefore. When we make no changes, we would remain our focus on whatever the focus. And I think that's part of the concept of first priority, though I was currently placed in a really difficult situation.
Well, whatever the choices, we are all like to move on with each life, and with smile.
By Emily Cai Qing
Jan.23rd, 2014
