A River Runs Through It
帮助，就是把部分的自我给予某个愿意接受以及迫切需要的人。（P106）
就这样，我们难得可以帮上谁。要么不知道自我中的哪个部分可以给人，要么自我的任何部分都不想给人。所以，经常有这种情形：别人需要的部分，别人自己其实并不想要；更常见的是，别人需要的部分，我们没有。（P107）
Help, is giving part of yourself to somebody who comes to accept it willingly and needs it badly.
So it is, that we can seldom help anybody. Either we don't know what part to give or maybe we don't like to give any part of ourselves. Then, more often than not, the part that is needed is not wanted. And even more often, we do not have the part that is needed. （P257）
同我们生活在一起并受我们挚爱的人，我们该知道，就是他们，我们无法理解。（P135）
It is those we live with and love and should know who elude us. （P289）
就这样，我们难得可以帮上谁。要么不知道自我中的哪个部分可以给人，要么自我的任何部分都不想给人。所以，经常有这种情形：别人需要的部分，别人自己其实并不想要；更常见的是，别人需要的部分，我们没有。（P107）
Help, is giving part of yourself to somebody who comes to accept it willingly and needs it badly.
So it is, that we can seldom help anybody. Either we don't know what part to give or maybe we don't like to give any part of ourselves. Then, more often than not, the part that is needed is not wanted. And even more often, we do not have the part that is needed. （P257）
同我们生活在一起并受我们挚爱的人，我们该知道，就是他们，我们无法理解。（P135）
It is those we live with and love and should know who elude us. （P289）
