Relationships是一种不得不背却越背越轻松的包袱

                
                
500 days with Summer 是一个不按自然时间走的故事，说着一对恋人的相遇、相爱、相处、争执、分手。他们的故事似乎少了“冷淡期“，印象中，他们从高潮（其实一直都很高潮），如烟火般绽放然后消逝。男孩受伤了，不解。女孩到后来也没有说清楚她离开的所以然。而这个向往自由的女孩儿，在不久之后就结婚了。
我刻意回避走进这个故事，去理解她想表达的感情纠结、爱恋中的唯美和现实的碰撞。喜欢这片，不是因为她的矛盾点，而是Summer这个人，和她的concept。
摘抄影片中的对白，这是她第一次和Tom（男主角）还有他死党MCKENZIE吃饭聊天:
                    SUMMER
                    You don't believe a woman could
                    enjoy being free and independent?
          
                    MCKENZIE
                    Are you a lesbian?
          
                    SUMMER
                    No, I'm not a lesbian. I'm just not
                    comfortable being somebody's
                    "girlfriend." I don't want to be
                    anybody's anything, you know?
                    
                    MCKENZIE
                    I have no idea what you're talking
                    about.
          
                    SUMMER
                    It sounds selfish, I know, but... I
                    just like being on my own.
                    Relationships are messy and
                    feelings are always getting hurt.
                    Who needs all that? We're young.
                    We're in one of the most beautiful
                    cities in the world.
                    I say, let's have as much fun as we
                    can afford and leave the serious
                    shit for later.
看到那一段，我不停地重播，抄录她的话。
Her lines, my story.
I'm not a lesbian, I just like being on my own.
It's not that I don't trust you, it's "relationships" that I have no faith in.
I know it's inappropriate to say this. But this is exactly how I feel,
"We're young. We're in one of the most beautiful cities in the world.
Have as much fun as we can afford and leave the serious shit for later."
BUT!
如九把刀说——人生最厲害的就是這個BUT！
你永远不知道所谓的 “serious shit” 什么时候来。
你所以为的 “later” 可能就是 “soon”。
而你的不羁放纵终究会被现实的那摊 “serious shit” 杀个措手不及。
在胆怯和奋不顾身之间寻找一个平衡点，
用对的心态，静默等候一个转机。
共勉之。