Afterthoughts of the english club
Tonight I went to an english club held in Quancheng city in Jinan. The number of participators has surpassed the record since its foundation. It was quite alive and animated.
You can certainly assume that those members are very outward and talkative. Actually i am not quite that kind of person and i think the above two qualities are very essential to make new friends. I need to learn and improve. Every time i go there, i know new names and learn new stories. Those lovely people are very friendly and supportive to the speakers however the performance is. i think the biggest obstacle is myself, the fear to express opinions in front of people or to be questioned. Lack of confidence and too concern about the way how i am looked hindered me. Too obsessed into the world of myself and hesitated to open to others just form a vicious circle that make me sunk deeply into the loneliness.
It is time to put down the burdens and dissolve the insulation. Make bold steps forward and set up icebreaking measures to upgrade my socializing ability.
You can certainly assume that those members are very outward and talkative. Actually i am not quite that kind of person and i think the above two qualities are very essential to make new friends. I need to learn and improve. Every time i go there, i know new names and learn new stories. Those lovely people are very friendly and supportive to the speakers however the performance is. i think the biggest obstacle is myself, the fear to express opinions in front of people or to be questioned. Lack of confidence and too concern about the way how i am looked hindered me. Too obsessed into the world of myself and hesitated to open to others just form a vicious circle that make me sunk deeply into the loneliness.
It is time to put down the burdens and dissolve the insulation. Make bold steps forward and set up icebreaking measures to upgrade my socializing ability.