That's it.

I think my need is simple. Provide a comfortable environment for the two in the relationship.
But it did not work, I felt quite uncomfortable, for those careless words, passive attack, rude…
I do tried to persuade myself to think about the positive aspects, like those unconditional giving, those kindness, but compared with those unhappiness, it can not compensate, I do not want live with a “ unpleasant” person.
That's it.