the ability to control myself

i found that what the people lack is the ability to contro themselves. we know success needs much endevour we all know this theory better but we can't insist to the end . we cansay that people were lazy and they need the power to persuad them to do something maybe whichi is sounds to abuse someone but actually people were just like the animal we must push them to do something. in our daily life we need not to worry about the life because we have the money which is from our parents,just such life that made us lazy and no concious of the dangerous in the future .we need someone to push us in sometime and just that push can lead you in to some new area.