Family Constellations
From Jiang,
Adults don't get angry,as they can act on their anger.Anger arises from powerless,so it's a habit from your childhood.
When we worry about others,we stop grouwing ourselves.
In a tragedy,if u look for faults,u can't really grieve,and the hurt and hatred will be in ur heart forver.
U can only love others if u love ur own mother.
Consent (surrender)to the fates and destinies-forgiveness.
Love can free the victim from the old relationship and start a new one.
Helping others is avoiding one's own problems.The helper is actually weaker that the other person.
Double identification & double shift
Adults don't get angry,as they can act on their anger.Anger arises from powerless,so it's a habit from your childhood.
When we worry about others,we stop grouwing ourselves.
In a tragedy,if u look for faults,u can't really grieve,and the hurt and hatred will be in ur heart forver.
U can only love others if u love ur own mother.
Consent (surrender)to the fates and destinies-forgiveness.
Love can free the victim from the old relationship and start a new one.
Helping others is avoiding one's own problems.The helper is actually weaker that the other person.
Double identification & double shift
