关于成熟
说起成熟来，我问你“什么是成熟”呢。你说你也不知道。
为此我特地wiki了一下maturity。大概是这个样子。
Maturity is a psychological term used to indicate how a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive, and is not determined by one's age. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act appropriately, according to the situation and the culture of the society one lives in.
意思很简单，就是在特定的环境下要做合适的事情。同时这种反应主要是习得的而不是本能的。回顾起当初和你在一起的时候，我做的大多数事情都是本能性的。看来这就是一种幼稚的表现吧。不过值得欣慰的是，还是可以learn到的。
wiki的这一页引用了一篇刊登在developmental psychology上的文章
Getting Older, Getting Better? Personal Strivings and Psychological Maturity Across the Life Span
我正在读，读完了之后我把心得贴上来哈。
为此我特地wiki了一下maturity。大概是这个样子。
Maturity is a psychological term used to indicate how a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive, and is not determined by one's age. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act appropriately, according to the situation and the culture of the society one lives in.
意思很简单，就是在特定的环境下要做合适的事情。同时这种反应主要是习得的而不是本能的。回顾起当初和你在一起的时候，我做的大多数事情都是本能性的。看来这就是一种幼稚的表现吧。不过值得欣慰的是，还是可以learn到的。
wiki的这一页引用了一篇刊登在developmental psychology上的文章
Getting Older, Getting Better? Personal Strivings and Psychological Maturity Across the Life Span
我正在读，读完了之后我把心得贴上来哈。
