Random thoughts on the train ride home
I like to give my loved one freedom, the freedom on little things in life, like where to eat out, what to wear to movies, should I wait for you for dinner. I expect the same from the other party. I expect we respect each other as adults, give each other space. Love is a free will, more than anything, two people choose each other not because of any obligation, but free will. So show your love by doing the very basic things, let your loved one be himself/herself, give them the room to stretch, to blossom, to be a little wild. The happier he/she is about hiself/herself, the happier you both will be. That's how you both grow, and grow old together.