Marriage
序：英语口语课上随机抽取话题进行的三分钟演讲。
Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, some others believe not. In my opinion, marriage is the paradise, but what I want to say today is how can we make marriage a paradise?
I have selected some important ingredients which we can find from marriage. The first thing I want to say is faith. We can definit faith in many different ways. For example, we must trust in each other, if we don't trust in each other, why shall we live together? Belief is also a kind of faith, it means that we must have confidence that we can carry on our marriage forever. The second thing is responsibility. Marriage is never a game, we must take seriously and carefully. When you get married, you are no longer yourself, you are either a husband or a wife. So you have to bear the responsibility to constract the future which belongs to both of you.The last but not the least, why we get married? I think most of us marry because of love, but what Iwant to say is that love never equals to marriage. I think love is a kind of sensibility and marriage is a kind of rationality. I have seen the cartoon film called "Rio", when little Blue was arrested, the bad bird said,"love is a so powerful and stupid thing." I was quite agreed with this sentence. To change love into marriage, we must pick out the powerful things and leave away the stupid ones.
Marriage is never the tomb of love. With faith, with responsibility, and with rational love, everyone of us can make marriage a paradise.
Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, some others believe not. In my opinion, marriage is the paradise, but what I want to say today is how can we make marriage a paradise?
I have selected some important ingredients which we can find from marriage. The first thing I want to say is faith. We can definit faith in many different ways. For example, we must trust in each other, if we don't trust in each other, why shall we live together? Belief is also a kind of faith, it means that we must have confidence that we can carry on our marriage forever. The second thing is responsibility. Marriage is never a game, we must take seriously and carefully. When you get married, you are no longer yourself, you are either a husband or a wife. So you have to bear the responsibility to constract the future which belongs to both of you.The last but not the least, why we get married? I think most of us marry because of love, but what Iwant to say is that love never equals to marriage. I think love is a kind of sensibility and marriage is a kind of rationality. I have seen the cartoon film called "Rio", when little Blue was arrested, the bad bird said,"love is a so powerful and stupid thing." I was quite agreed with this sentence. To change love into marriage, we must pick out the powerful things and leave away the stupid ones.
Marriage is never the tomb of love. With faith, with responsibility, and with rational love, everyone of us can make marriage a paradise.
