自己的茧要自己破
爱情轻喜剧这种东西就像巧克力,吃多了会腻,可要老不吃也不好,营养得均衡着来。太甜不深刻,太苦不快乐!
最近看犯罪类型的东西看得太多——没得选,谁叫澳洲电视台只买美剧,而美国编剧又是只写犯罪题材……所以突然碰上这么一部养眼又圆满的爱情故事,如沐春风啊!
结局是团圆的,过程是顺畅的,心情是轻松的(可以边磕瓜子边看),只是刚才看到有人贴出了kate在安慰jack时的那段台词让俺想到了很多很多……
I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible,
and how it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you,
and it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get or gyms you join
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
you still go to bed every night going over every detail,
and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment, you could think that you were that happy?
...
And after all that,
however long all that may be,
you'll go somewhere new
and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again,
and little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff,
those years of your life that you wasted,
that will eventually begin to fade.
电影里的kate在报社工作,和同报社的英俊才子关系暧昧,正当她沉浸在这段若即若离的悸动爱情里时,那男的竟然突然在报社里宣布了自己和同一栋大楼里的另外一个女人订婚的消息,于是kate有了这次“为了忘却的假期”。
在kate从寒冷的伦敦飞去阳光灿烂的L.A.后,遇到“同是天涯沦落人”的胖子jack,终于悟到了这番道理,并以此试图安慰jack。
我估计所有熟龄女人都有过失败的,或者说错误的relationship,至少我身边很少有“零挫折”的幸运儿——那得多幸运啊。而且很多人的霉运至今还没有结束,她们依然在沮丧和憧憬中奋力前行着。
面对一段关系,包括那些处于暧昧阶段的,我们总在因为自己显得不够重要而局促不安,我们以为那一定是因为自己不够完美。“他”满足了你的所有理想标准,那么优秀、那么性感、那么有魅力,错误怎么可能出现在完美的“他”身上?走到分手的这一天,怪也一定怪你不够好……
于是我们自责,虽然不明就里,可却不停地自责,一遍又一遍地揪出所有细节,想搞明白到底自己哪里没有作对,我们想都不想就把这段关系的失败直接定义为自我的失败。
即使我们打扮得再漂亮,即使我们事业成功谈笑风生,即使我们依然知道如何获得注目,但在那个人闪回脑中的一瞬间,整个人还是会瘫在那个自我怀疑自我检讨的死局里不得翻身。
自己做的茧只能自己破。我们要过很久才能明白,原来那并不是失败,只是一场错误,爱错了人,或者会错了意。爱情里本没有配不配,只有对不对。没有哪个女主角是不重要的,这和完不完美毫不相干。
错误的搭配有千百种,每种感觉都不同,有的是如kate般心痛,有的是如diaz般漠然,甚至性冷淡,但是正确的感觉只有一种,你一定能辨认出来!当你有幸遇上了,祝贺你,你一定会成为世上最有意义的存在!而那些曾经打击你折磨你自我怀疑也才能真正的消失!
最近看犯罪类型的东西看得太多——没得选,谁叫澳洲电视台只买美剧,而美国编剧又是只写犯罪题材……所以突然碰上这么一部养眼又圆满的爱情故事,如沐春风啊!
结局是团圆的,过程是顺畅的,心情是轻松的(可以边磕瓜子边看),只是刚才看到有人贴出了kate在安慰jack时的那段台词让俺想到了很多很多……
I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible,
and how it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you,
and it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get or gyms you join
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
you still go to bed every night going over every detail,
and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment, you could think that you were that happy?
...
And after all that,
however long all that may be,
you'll go somewhere new
and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again,
and little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff,
those years of your life that you wasted,
that will eventually begin to fade.
电影里的kate在报社工作,和同报社的英俊才子关系暧昧,正当她沉浸在这段若即若离的悸动爱情里时,那男的竟然突然在报社里宣布了自己和同一栋大楼里的另外一个女人订婚的消息,于是kate有了这次“为了忘却的假期”。
在kate从寒冷的伦敦飞去阳光灿烂的L.A.后,遇到“同是天涯沦落人”的胖子jack,终于悟到了这番道理,并以此试图安慰jack。
我估计所有熟龄女人都有过失败的,或者说错误的relationship,至少我身边很少有“零挫折”的幸运儿——那得多幸运啊。而且很多人的霉运至今还没有结束,她们依然在沮丧和憧憬中奋力前行着。
面对一段关系,包括那些处于暧昧阶段的,我们总在因为自己显得不够重要而局促不安,我们以为那一定是因为自己不够完美。“他”满足了你的所有理想标准,那么优秀、那么性感、那么有魅力,错误怎么可能出现在完美的“他”身上?走到分手的这一天,怪也一定怪你不够好……
于是我们自责,虽然不明就里,可却不停地自责,一遍又一遍地揪出所有细节,想搞明白到底自己哪里没有作对,我们想都不想就把这段关系的失败直接定义为自我的失败。
即使我们打扮得再漂亮,即使我们事业成功谈笑风生,即使我们依然知道如何获得注目,但在那个人闪回脑中的一瞬间,整个人还是会瘫在那个自我怀疑自我检讨的死局里不得翻身。
自己做的茧只能自己破。我们要过很久才能明白,原来那并不是失败,只是一场错误,爱错了人,或者会错了意。爱情里本没有配不配,只有对不对。没有哪个女主角是不重要的,这和完不完美毫不相干。
错误的搭配有千百种,每种感觉都不同,有的是如kate般心痛,有的是如diaz般漠然,甚至性冷淡,但是正确的感觉只有一种,你一定能辨认出来!当你有幸遇上了,祝贺你,你一定会成为世上最有意义的存在!而那些曾经打击你折磨你自我怀疑也才能真正的消失!
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