While you made a bad decision, how to bounce back

      我们无时无刻都在做着选择题，都会在某一天遇到答错题的时候。只不过，当你做出错误的选择后，是否拥有一个乐观的心态，用心地去寻找办法解决问题呢？于是我写下了在找工作的过程当中所吸取的经验教训，愿与大家分享。
                
                
      Nowadays, there are full of many colorful things in our modern society, including charming money, delicious food, beautiful lady and luxury material, which will tempt people to be an adventurer. We call it “materialistic pe-riod”. While we are living in the center of this wonderful land, we will be faced with many kinds of alternatives and always confusing the meaning of live.
      In our routine working life, no matter how busy we are, we all have to make a decision in every minute. Such as choosing one brand of mobile phone, suitable major, your job and so on.
But if you make a bad decision, what are you going to do? How do you make a quick reaction in a few minutes?
      Let me give you one example: when you were getting offers from two famous companies like HSBC and Kingdee, at the very beginning, you didn’t even know which one was the best. After you thinking deeply, you fell in love with HSBC. Since you had been working in HSBC for several weeks, you finally found out that was not your suitable company. You didn’t like the job and just wanted to run away. You said like this: I regret making a bad de-cision and I want to bounce back.
      OK! If you want to bounce back, these following steps will help you find the best ways to solve your problems.
      1.Calm down and focus on the reason why you make a wrong decision;
       Many people will fall into this embarrassed situation if they meet some troubles: if I could have another chance, I would not make any mistakes. Don’t try to complain, the most important thing is to focus on the mistake itself and find solutions, not excuses.
      2.Are there any ways to retrieve a situation and bring it back into a more acceptable state;
      As we know, solutions are much more than difficulties. You can ask your relatives and friends to do you a favor for some advices. Sometimes it works more effectively because of brain storming.
      3.If not, be optimistic and try to accept the reality;
      When we meet some troubles, attitude is very important for us. You know, what can’t be changed can’t stop our pursuit of the heart. So why don’t you be optimistic, accept the reality, enjoy the moment and make an effort to learn more, waiting for the next good chance coming.
      4.Write down your opinion in notebook and learn lesson from the experience.
Both of them have same common ground: IT industry, providing software products for customer. But in addition, they have some different points:
      1) HSBC is a foreign company, they use English as their working language. The job require talented person to design Software Management System for the Bank of HSBC all around the world.
      2) Kingdee is a private enterprises, which provides ERP software products for enterprises. Such as Financial Management System, Invoicing Management System and so on.
     You must ask yourself what makes you feel more interested? Do you like foreign working environment, using English for communica-tion and having chances for foreign business trip? Or you just want to stay in local company and have more chances to get further promotion? All you have to do is: listen to your inner voice and follow your heart.
     OK, from now on, think deeply and thoroughly, exploring all pos-sibilities before any decisions.
     If you think you can, you can.