Death at a Funeral

“My father was an exceptional man.
He may not have been a perfect man, but he was a good man.
And he loved us.
All I wanted to do today was to give him a dignified...
...sending.
So...
Maybe...
Maybe he had some things he liked to do.
Life isn't simple. It's complicated.
We're all just thrown in here together in a world full of chaos and confusion.
A world full of questions and no answers.
With Death always lingering around the corner.
And we do our best.
We can't always do our best.
My dad did it best.
He always tried to tell me you have to go for what you want in life, because you never know how long you're gonna be here.
And whether you succeed or you fail,the most important thing is to have tried.
A parent can only drive you in the right direction.
In the end though, you've got to run for yourself.
You have to grow up yourself.
So when you leave here today, I'd like you to remember my father for what he really was.
A decent and loving man.
If only we could be as giving and generous and understanding as my father was.
Then the world would be a far better place.”
“我父亲是个与众不同的人
他也许并不完美
但他是个好男人
他爱我们
今天我想要做的，是为他献上
一个庄严隆重的…
…告别式
这要求很过分吗？
也许…
也许他有他的喜好
生活并不简单
有些复杂
我们都一起被带到…
…一个充满混乱与骚动的世界
一个充满各种疑问与答案的世界
而死亡总在某个角落徘徊
我们竭尽所能做到最好
却无法总是做到最好
父亲他做到了
他总是告诉我
你必须过你想过的人生…
…因为你永远不会晓得
何时你将离开
不论成功或失败…
…最重要的是
你努力尝试过了
父母只能为你指引方向
然而
到最后…
…你还是得自己闯
你得自己成长
所以
今天
当你们离开这里以后…
…我希望你们记得我父亲
他真实的样子
一个正直又深情的男人
假使我们能像我父亲一样…
…慷慨
乐于付出
善解人意
那么
这世界将会是个
更好的地方”
--Death at a Funeral(http://www.douban.com/subject/2003389/)