Marriage, like radii shoes, run away like a barefoot

There are always things that we clearly and logically
Marriage is a way of life, elopement is another way of life, each has its advantages, there is no right or wrong in this, but can not coexist for a long moon Tong-hui.
Friends asked, why need love loyalty? People can spend two fall in love with two rooms, so why can not love more? I said, you see men run away, ran to finally ran a "home." Life can be red flags, but it is difficult side of family life while elope, right?
If the "run away" rush into "marriage", then Ben can not, because marriage is live, the family has a been there for several years with their own day of the; like if you had run away to live like that and He Bicheng home ? Like every day on the road ... ...
Marriage is a way of life, elopement is another way of life, each has its advantages, there is no right or wrong in this, but can not coexist for a long moon Tong-hui.
Even if two women are accepted, men are everywhere at once --- and a man can be one hundred thirty-five this before, two hundred forty-six and that, but man can not be one hundred thirty-five marriage, two hundred forty-six eloped. It is not called marriage, elopement is not called, and the disadvantages of both marriage and elopement, but did not have both the benefits of both. Have both the benefits of the two is that eloped eloped go, home go home.
The two women even more women can co-exist, but the lifestyle is not compatible. As men often say, brothers as brothers, women such as clothes, wear more and more for do it, but it can also wear two sets of dress on the body do?
Marriage, like radii shoes, run away like the barefoot, even if there is no right or wrong, even if social norms are allowed, but you do it? They wear radii shoes and barefoot? You can only wear radii shoes or barefoot, or do not? Of course, there is a majority of the time people will choose to wear radii shoes, but to the beach picking up shells or hot springs, when barefoot, and then picking up shells Paowan complete home spa to put on shoes ... they say love, I like barefoot picking up shells, like wearing a fit of the radii straight jacket shoes to walk.
I have a girlfriend, accidentally discovered her husband was having an affair, her husband immediately to ensure that broken. But soon she was again caught chats. Husband again repentance. But since then, she started to become sensitive, suspicious, always suspected her husband and later went to see a psychiatrist specializing. To this end, both sides are extremely painful, as long as she called could not find her husband, she would give her husband's relatives and friends are all playing again phone, and made her husband bruised and battered, she is also extremely distressed, and finally, her husband straight said she hopes to return to the previous kind of special relationship of mutual trust to go, but now she found herself can not do, is not reluctant to trust him, but his betrayal to his own injuries, too.
She said to her husband: "Your affair for me, marriage is equivalent to the 'nuclear', you promised me While you will destroy 'nuclear', do not guarantee an affair, but in order to let me trust you, can you Allow me to 'verify'? "
Her husband asked how "verification"? She said: First, have the right to check his cell phone text messages and phone records; second, to be home for dinner every night, if you have something to leave; third, to take any phone, if for some reason can not take cell phones, such as meetings, etc., please turn off before the advertised. "
Her husband is doing finance, to understand the trust between husband and wife as credit card, once maxed out, you must pay double interest, otherwise no one will allow you to overdraft. So, he finally agreed to his wife's "verification", which can be considered one of his sincerity.
Now they crash and burn. Girlfriend told me that she had also called to be like Jackie Chan's wife Lin Feng as an eye, close one eye, or simply two eyes are shut, but in the end she found that she can not do. She is not so broad minded, there is no "be tolerant to diversity" of magnanimity, she proposed "verification" and called her husband with the "verification" --- I asked her, if you refuse your husband "verification" requirement, and tell you that this his freedom, you have no right to interfere in it?
She said: Then I would tell him, I also have a lot of freedom oh.
I asked her, Are you afraid of the husband desperate, simply with your divorce?
Her answer was interesting, she said, if I am 50 years old, I also consider forbearance and tolerance, but I am just 30 years old, we must endure, that I not have to endure a lifetime? And endure to the end, if he has to leave how to do? Not like a start off, then spread out, I just can not stand, if you think my demands are unreasonable, we will go early divorce, I was 30 years old the chance to look for happiness is better than 40-year-old, right? The worst thing is, some woman, suffered a lifetime, bringing up their children to others, around the house to take care of good people, people, or "run away" a marriage --- you are guarding a birthright interesting? Stand in his own lifetime Amah Rock!there are a few Amah husband back? Is back, also mostly empty wallet empty body also want you to wait on your pension to the old guy --- you believe him because had to do a thousand sails are not you?