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Practice Perfect
Authors’ suggestions: Replace your purpose with a clear, focused and measurable objective; give one another the gift of constructive feedback (for the ones you care about)—if you don’t care abou...
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Feminism Is for Everybody
Feminism is a movement to end sexist oppression. Recognizing the problem lies with patriarchy, sexism, and male domination —rather than just with men—requires “more complex theorizing”, hooks w...
用时间搭积木的人。
«O mon âme, n’aspire à la vie immortelle, mais épuise le champ du possible.» (Pindare)
我的心魂，不要渴望永生——要在可能中跋涉不止。
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Les nourritures terrestres / Les nouvelles nourritures
d’André Gide 纪德
Que l'importance soit dans ton regard, non dans la chose regardée.
Regarde le soir comme si le jour y devait mourir; et le matin comme si toute chose y naissait.
注视夜晚，仿佛白日需在那里死去； 凝望清晨，仿佛万物在此初始。
Je vivais dans la perpétuelle attente, délicieuse, de n'importe quel avenir.
我活在永恒的期待里，如此甜蜜，期待任意一个未来。
Je savourais souvent, dans mes courses du matin, le sentiment d'un nouvel être, la tendresse de ma perception.–“Don du poète, m'écriais-je, tu es le don de perpétuelle rencontre”– et j'accueillais de toutes parts. Mon âme était l'auberge ouverte au carrefour; ce qui voulait entrer, entrait.
Connais-toi toi-même. Maxime aussi pernicieuse que laide. Quiconque s'observe arrête son développement. La chenille qui chercherait à «bien se connaître» ne deviendrait jamais papillon.
Sache comprendre la fable grecque: Elle nous enseigne qu'Achille était invulnérable, sauf en cet endroit de son corps qu'attendrissait le souvenir du contact des doigts maternels.
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《眠空》庆山
我们的确有可能时时刻刻成为一个新的自己，具备无限的生机和活泼。
人内在的深切和细腻，需要对等的人才能承当。
真正的爱，一定相联着喜悦、笃实、明朗、饱满。
我们对他人的慈悲，最终无非是给予每一个在身边出现过的人。给予他们些许的快乐，些许的真实和安宁。
所谓的关系，重要的不是在情感本身得到的愉悦，而是在彼此的思想深度里获得愉悦。只有这样的交会，才会有可能获得途径渗入对方生命。当我们真正爱一个人的时候，不会想去控制和支配对方，也未必要在时间的限度里始终彼此占有。
当你爱着对方的灵魂，你会更客观和自在地对待彼此的肉身和现实关系。
我认为爱的喜悦，如同所有关系的源泉，应来自彼此思维的共振。来自它们的撞击、应和、交叠、推动。如果双方保持增长，思维能够开拓边界递进深度，那么不管关系是否终结，只要相见，依然可以彼此给予，这样便具备了永久的相爱的可能性。
要庆幸自己得到机会能够为一件美好的事物竭尽全力。要相信人所坚持的应会有回应，只是一切结果需要时间抵达。
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Gender Trouble by Judith Butler
https://www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch/review/10478961?dt_dapp=1
[Excerpts]
To have a gender means to have entered already into a heterosexual relationship of subordination.
a feminist view argues that gender should be overthrown, eliminated, or rendered fatally ambiguous precisely because it is always a sign of subordination for women.
a lesbian is not a woman. A woman, Wittig argues, only exists as a term that stabilizes and consolidates a binary and oppositional relation to a man... A lesbian, she claims, in refusing heterosexuality is no longer defined in terms of that oppositional relation. Indeed, a lesbian, she maintains, transcends the binary opposition between woman and man...
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Letters to a Young Poet
by Rainer Maria Rilke
https://www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch/review/12660849?dt_dapp=1
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Ain’t I a woman
by bell hooks
[Excerpts]
In the introduction to The Remembered Gate: Origins of American Feminism Barbara Berg defines feminism as a “broad movement embracing numerous phases of woman’s emancipation.” She further states:
It is the freedom to decide her own destiny; freedom from sex-determined role; freedom from society’s oppressive restrictions; freedom to express her thoughts fully and to convert them freely to actions. Feminism demands the acceptance of woman’s right to individual conscience and judgment. It postulates that woman’s essential worth stems from her common humanity and does not depend on the other relationships of her life.
Her expanded definition of feminism is useful but limited. Many women have found that neither the struggle for “social equality” nor the focus on an “ideology of woman as an autonomous being” are enough to rid society of sexism and male domination. To me feminism is not simply a struggle to end male chauvinism or a movement to ensure that women will have equal rights with men; it is a commitment to eradicating the ideology of domination that permeates Western culture on various levels—”sex, race, and class, to name a few—and a commitment to reorganizing U.S. society so that the self-development of people can take precedence over imperialism, economic expansion, and material desires.
… to be “feminist” in any authentic sense of the term is to want for all people, female and male, liberation from sexist role patterns, domination, and oppression.
«O mon âme, n’aspire à la vie immortelle, mais épuise le champ du possible.» (Pindare)
我的心魂，不要渴望永生——要在可能中跋涉不止。
———
Les nourritures terrestres / Les nouvelles nourritures
d’André Gide 纪德
Que l'importance soit dans ton regard, non dans la chose regardée.
Regarde le soir comme si le jour y devait mourir; et le matin comme si toute chose y naissait.
注视夜晚，仿佛白日需在那里死去； 凝望清晨，仿佛万物在此初始。
Je vivais dans la perpétuelle attente, délicieuse, de n'importe quel avenir.
我活在永恒的期待里，如此甜蜜，期待任意一个未来。
Je savourais souvent, dans mes courses du matin, le sentiment d'un nouvel être, la tendresse de ma perception.–“Don du poète, m'écriais-je, tu es le don de perpétuelle rencontre”– et j'accueillais de toutes parts. Mon âme était l'auberge ouverte au carrefour; ce qui voulait entrer, entrait.
Connais-toi toi-même. Maxime aussi pernicieuse que laide. Quiconque s'observe arrête son développement. La chenille qui chercherait à «bien se connaître» ne deviendrait jamais papillon.
Sache comprendre la fable grecque: Elle nous enseigne qu'Achille était invulnérable, sauf en cet endroit de son corps qu'attendrissait le souvenir du contact des doigts maternels.
———
《眠空》庆山
我们的确有可能时时刻刻成为一个新的自己，具备无限的生机和活泼。
人内在的深切和细腻，需要对等的人才能承当。
真正的爱，一定相联着喜悦、笃实、明朗、饱满。
我们对他人的慈悲，最终无非是给予每一个在身边出现过的人。给予他们些许的快乐，些许的真实和安宁。
所谓的关系，重要的不是在情感本身得到的愉悦，而是在彼此的思想深度里获得愉悦。只有这样的交会，才会有可能获得途径渗入对方生命。当我们真正爱一个人的时候，不会想去控制和支配对方，也未必要在时间的限度里始终彼此占有。
当你爱着对方的灵魂，你会更客观和自在地对待彼此的肉身和现实关系。
我认为爱的喜悦，如同所有关系的源泉，应来自彼此思维的共振。来自它们的撞击、应和、交叠、推动。如果双方保持增长，思维能够开拓边界递进深度，那么不管关系是否终结，只要相见，依然可以彼此给予，这样便具备了永久的相爱的可能性。
要庆幸自己得到机会能够为一件美好的事物竭尽全力。要相信人所坚持的应会有回应，只是一切结果需要时间抵达。
———
Gender Trouble by Judith Butler
https://www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch/review/10478961?dt_dapp=1
[Excerpts]
To have a gender means to have entered already into a heterosexual relationship of subordination.
a feminist view argues that gender should be overthrown, eliminated, or rendered fatally ambiguous precisely because it is always a sign of subordination for women.
a lesbian is not a woman. A woman, Wittig argues, only exists as a term that stabilizes and consolidates a binary and oppositional relation to a man... A lesbian, she claims, in refusing heterosexuality is no longer defined in terms of that oppositional relation. Indeed, a lesbian, she maintains, transcends the binary opposition between woman and man...
———
Letters to a Young Poet
by Rainer Maria Rilke
https://www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch/review/12660849?dt_dapp=1
———
Ain’t I a woman
by bell hooks
[Excerpts]
In the introduction to The Remembered Gate: Origins of American Feminism Barbara Berg defines feminism as a “broad movement embracing numerous phases of woman’s emancipation.” She further states:
It is the freedom to decide her own destiny; freedom from sex-determined role; freedom from society’s oppressive restrictions; freedom to express her thoughts fully and to convert them freely to actions. Feminism demands the acceptance of woman’s right to individual conscience and judgment. It postulates that woman’s essential worth stems from her common humanity and does not depend on the other relationships of her life.
Her expanded definition of feminism is useful but limited. Many women have found that neither the struggle for “social equality” nor the focus on an “ideology of woman as an autonomous being” are enough to rid society of sexism and male domination. To me feminism is not simply a struggle to end male chauvinism or a movement to ensure that women will have equal rights with men; it is a commitment to eradicating the ideology of domination that permeates Western culture on various levels—”sex, race, and class, to name a few—and a commitment to reorganizing U.S. society so that the self-development of people can take precedence over imperialism, economic expansion, and material desires.
… to be “feminist” in any authentic sense of the term is to want for all people, female and male, liberation from sexist role patterns, domination, and oppression.
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我不了解原教旨主义人类学，但是我从《Gods of the Upper Air》这本书了解到的，人类学这个学科的建立，并不是对殖民地居高临下的他者话的凝视，而是揭示种族这个分类的虚妄与非科学，也是回到对自身的检视。 ”We ought to suspend our judgment about other ways of seeing social reality until we really understand them, and in turn we should look at our own society with the same dispassion and skepticism with which we study far-flung peoples.” 其它观点很赞同 曼仔的广播
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好有趣！“魏收寫《魏書·刑罰志》，通論北魏一百五十年來的法律發展，卻花了將近六分之一的篇幅記錄這個案子。到了十九世紀末，身兼清朝法官和法律學者的沈家本，在他教導學生判案的文章〈學斷〉之中，也引用了這個案子，可見本案在傳統中國法律史上的代表性和重要性。而這個案子，在受過階級、種族和性別意識薰陶的規代歷史學家眼中，更是顯得引人入勝。” “當我們討論婦女在法律上的地位時，不能只是分析女性在各種條文和案例中的處境，也必須檢討女性運用法律的機會和參與立法的可能性。誠然，對於握有大權的女性，學者和一般人一樣，永遠都會爭論：她們究竟有沒有、有什麼，以及有多少女性意識？儘管如此，女性想要改變命運，似乎總是得站上權力運作的樞紐位置。劉氏一語中的，問「何不讓周婆制禮！」這或許正是歷史給當今姊妹最重要的建議！”
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