(专题)吕克 12星座情感需求(完成)
来自: 王小亚(三花狸猫&羽生结弦爱慕者)
注:写着待核的星座不一定是翻译的有问题,而是有些新来译者,不熟悉翻译如何的情况下,头几次会核对一下原文,多次翻译都无误可以胜任后一般以后除非有人指出,不然就不核对了。 ==================================== 请先回复“抱”贴,再翻译,以免撞车浪费人力,谢谢合作! 如无严重翻译问题或抱走24小时依然未译,则以第一位抱走的为准。 其余翻译者视为兴趣展示,不予更新到主帖 转载请注明“星译社”(http://www.douban.com/group/ATSteam/)及译者,谢谢 搬运排版:王小亚 译文: ★★★综述——译者:晓畅 人们出于各种原因寻找爱情:经济保障,找回缺失的自信,情感需求,性冲动,欢愉,控制欲等…… 通过寻找上述所有层面的原始动力,我们可以分析每个星座。这篇文章里,我们要关注的是12星座的情感需求,基于对每个星座性格气质的典型分析。 你的本命星盘是多行星和多宫位的综合产物,所以说在实际生活中,并非下述所有特征都是明显可见的。占星学远非仅仅描述单个星座(比如你的太阳或月亮星座),但值得注意的是,这仍是了解每个星座典型特征的好办法。此外,如果你希望找到自己的情感需求和幸福,你的月亮星座往往比太阳星座更重要。 ★★★白羊座——译者:Mononoke 白羊是基本火象星座。火象涉及行动力,活动和自我表达。白羊重直觉而且相当天真。 白羊需要动起来去做一件事情,需要挑战的来临。 白羊经常迅速驱动自己前行(往往时机过早)以吸引他人注意。这个星座的标志是“我在这儿”。 白羊会排除万难,无往不摧。 无论做什么,白羊要成为第一个尝试和行动的人,否则TA会视为挫败,因此而失意沮丧。 在情感上,白羊做不到总是很成熟,因为TA代表所有还处于萌芽状态,还需经历漫长的成长和发展,经验充实和增长阶段的事物状态。这些都在洞察力上有所匮缺,而且都需要时间的灌溉。 白羊的情绪来去如风,时不时就会燃起情绪之火。 由于白羊很少征询他人的意见而是自己拿主意,TA也缺乏合作意识(这一点与天秤相反)。白羊无法容忍他人的干扰和限制。事情的进行需由他们一手掌控。 同时,白羊总是希望自己的要求在即刻便得以满足。他们极不耐烦,无法等待。多等一秒都不行。 若身处环境充满竞争,白羊会感觉惬意无比。 ★★★金牛座——译者:一一 金牛是固定宫,土相星座。土星生活在现实世界中,而绝非情感层面(情感是水相的特点)。土相的情感不存在头脑想像中(想像是风相的特点),所以土相的情感幸福完全是物质的、根本的东西。 因此,他们需要关注自己的身体和财产。他们的感情受到体格的影响。任何感情话题都会从身体方面明显表现出来,或者从他们处理物质(金钱或财产)的方式上表现出来。 不要与金牛玩心理游戏,因为他们不喜欢! 观察他们的饮食习惯,观察他们的花钱方式。留意金牛的穿衣打扮就会明白他们身在何种情感环境中。 金牛需要感觉理由充足,有安全感,需依赖自己的财产。金牛不需要荒谬的方法。金牛需要时间理解事情,因为他们是十二星座中最迟缓,行动最慢的一个。 因为他们爱反思,所以他们的情感,无论恐惧还是生气都会以年为单位,并会反复思量这些经历。 同样,金牛坚守常规,这样做会让他们有安全感。他们天生不喜变化(尤其不能忍受突来之变,或意外的惊喜)。 金牛需要和谐、平静、舒适和美丽的环境。他们需要拥抱和轻轻地抚摸。愉快的信息、欢乐的购物和美食都会满足金牛的情感需求。 金牛爱自然,也需要处在有花、有植物和树木的环境中,这样他们的情绪才能得到放松。 ★★★双子座——译者:MewMew 双子是一个多变的风象星座。所有的风象星座都是靠头脑生活,而非身体及/或情感。实际上,风象星座对情感理解得不太好(因为情感属于水象元素)。风与水不相容。那就是为什么情感得要解释而非去感受了。 然而,双子是个信息收集者。情感上,双子需要能够发挥他的多才多艺和聪慧来生活。多变的风是最不稳定的元素,这显示双子需要无休止的变化。 只有当他们一直觉得有趣、经常变换地点及享受各种小活动时才感觉良好。 情感话题会引来极端的不安而需要“走出去”。双子,这对双胞胎,就是需要同时做两件事才满足。 ★★★巨蟹座——译者: 兔子 巨蟹是属于基本宫的水象星座。所有的水象星座都代表着不同层面的情绪和情感。而巨蟹的一切都与情绪有关。他们在自己所遭遇和做的一切事情里寻找情感,很容易就被触动。 巨蟹需要一个温馨的家庭环境(或者另一个供它躲避的温馨场所)来让他觉得安全。当巨蟹座能为某人或者某事付出关爱的时候,他们会感觉很好。 巨蟹座在受到伤害的时候很容易退缩。巨蟹座的人都像一个大孩子,或者是一个家庭爱好者或者十分看重家庭的人。 因为巨蟹座的人极端敏感,所以他们很容易受到伤害,很容易觉得自己被拒绝。他们需要一种“归属感”;如果没有的话,他们就很容易嫉妒。 巨蟹座倾向于将一切事情融进心里(所有的水象星座都是),向海绵一样吸收着周围的环境和氛围。他们想要保护一切、包罗万象,而且很容易就对人或者事产生依赖。 事实上,巨蟹是一个十分粘人的星座,如果他们没办法去照顾、保护或者抚育他人的话,他们就会觉得自己被拒绝了,会感到失望。他们十分渴求密切关系(这是风象和火象星座最讨厌的!)情绪问题与他们的饮食失调密切相关。 财务上的安全感对于支持巨蟹座的情感方面的福祉来说也十分十分重要。 ★★★狮子座——译者:晓畅 狮子座是固定宫,火象。火象星座需要行动、活力与自我表达。狮子需要去展示自己。狮子们每天琢磨的就是“快看我”或者“哎呀你到底看到我没”(自动脑补)。狮子们关注的就是自我意识——无论好换。 如果狮子不能展示自己,会觉得很受伤。因此,当狮子们不开心的时候那就是戏剧女王(国王)啊! 有时狮子也是能够持续燃烧的木炭,因此也具有很强的耐力。狮子希望能够创造出一些有形的事物(写书,怀孕、演出)并且是极富创造力的。狮子需要娱乐、要有乐子,有的玩儿。这是他们在情绪上感到满足的方式。 在被表扬或感激的时候,狮子就会变得很慷慨。他们需要成为最好的(不像摩羯,他们希望占有优势,白羊希望凡事第一)。狮子渴望得到注意,尤其渴望得到认同。在他们进行自我美化的时候,通常可以看出他们对注意力的渴望。 狮子需要因为某些事或某些人感到骄傲。 ★★★处女座——译者:折玉笙 处处是变动土象星座。土象星座生活在物质的世界里,而非感情世界(这是水象的特性)。 处女座是十二星座里最谦虚也是最乐于助人的星座,对应着谦逊,服帖的下属员工(就像人们常说的“公务员”)。 处女座无法自行,不敢肯定自己。处女座需要的是细枝末节。而且总是需要些事情来操心下——他们总是喜欢找些事情思考下(不管是某个词语,话题,状况还是某种经历。。。都行) 现在你该知道为什么处女座挺难感觉到刺激了吧?他们又枯燥又冷漠,不喜欢流泪或者其他的感性行为。 处女座需要以一种实在的方式来感受自己被需要,觉得自己是有用的(这依然是土星星座的表现)。在他们会非常唠叨,并且对感情中的微小细节过度分析。所以,他们也是十二星座里最不容易满足的星座了。他们在感情上真的是吹毛求疵了呀。 ★★★天枰座——译者:hosfee 天平是个风相的基本宫星座。所有的风相星座都生活在他们的理想中,更胜于自己的身体与情感。事实上风相星座都不十分理解感情(因为情感是属于水元素的)。风和水不能很好的融合。不过天平是所有星座中最擅长社交的。天平需要“另一个人”(而且并不总是对此表示批评)。天平需要一个听众而对于独自一人会感到不舒服,他们需要各种声音(音乐,说话声……)而无法忍受彻底的寂静。 天平不想伤害任何人,不能忍受争斗,需要和谐与平衡(有些东西很少是由它自身创造的) 因此天平避免正面的对抗(不像白羊)。天平并不是最诚实的星座,它经常会来个U型大转弯以保持平衡。 他们最主要的乐趣就是与“他人”幸福的在一起。 天平需要一个回应,需要反馈来衡量每种情况。天平是关于合作与平等的星座(与白羊不同) 天平能反射“他人”的行为。情感问题很容易从他们的碰触与甜蜜的口中反映出来。 天平需要一个和谐、整洁与美观的令人愉快的环情才能感觉舒服 ★★★天蝎座——译者:王小亚 天蝎是个水象固定宫星座。所有水象星座都象征着不同层面的情绪与感受。形容天蝎的谚语好比是“静水深流”。所有水象星座都寂静无声(注:星座分类上水象星座同时也被称为“哑星座”),但由于天蝎的固定特质,使之更具寡言及不屈特质。 天蝎是鲜少表现出情绪的类型,因为蝎子也是个有保留、喜控制、秘密倾向的星座。强度和深度是天蝎座人生的一部分。 情绪是用来被探测和体验到极致甚至毁灭的(如有必要的话)。水象的感受性很容易变成汹涌喷发。 天蝎凭本能去感知,并决心去遵从它的(原始)欲求。天蝎无法过着平庸的日子:它需要极致。 天蝎对每一件事每一个人都总是需要深刻且富有激情。因此天蝎占有欲强。 很难令天蝎去信任,他们非常需要个人隐私。蝎子从不会完全敞开心扉,放下那些不爽的感受也近乎不可能(这正是天蝎的固定性特征)。 它会与所遇见的任何人和事都建立紧密及情绪上的连系。由于凝固的水能结成冰,所以当天蝎被伤害,就变得冷酷。 爱与恨对蝎子来说是一体两面,创伤性经历是他们人生的一部分。 ★★★射手座——译者:子夜 射手是火象、变动宫星座。火象需要行动、活动和自我表达。射手们的弓有许多弦,但基本不可能全部用上。 射手需要宣传、教育、讲课、说教、灌输、给出(未经请求的)建议……射手考思想生存,而非日复一日的现实生活,因此射手对物质世界和满足物质需要兴趣缺缺。 射手们生气勃勃,英勇、直率(不老练)、不是很有眼力。射手需要体验辽阔与深远的想象世界。射手时不时地需要活得汪洋恣肆、无牵无挂。 射手需要无限的空间和自由,他们会从限制性的责任当中脱逸。 同时,射手也靠心灵而活。 不过呢,射手毕竟是双体星座(上半身人,下半身兽),很多场合下他们会在人兽之间摇摆。这常表现为外观举止的时而马虎,时而整洁。 射手们过于自信,无法忍受实用主义和务实的做法和观念。 类似绝大多数火象星座,感情问题会过分言过其实,会有大量的流于夸张的姿态、歇斯底里和吼叫。射手会占据道德制高点来恃强凌弱。 情绪问题会体现在射手处理金钱的方式上(奢侈浪费、赌博投机……)。 射手在家里很少感觉良好,他们无疑更需要出门在外。他们是探险家,热衷徒步旅行,享受异域美味。射手不喜欢被限制。 ★★★摩羯座——译者:Currency 摩羯座是基本宫土相星座。土相星座生活在物质世界之中,不是情感世界(那是水相的特点)也不是理性世界(那是风相特点)。 摩羯座想要至高的地位,凌驾于众人之上。摩羯座需要以一个老板、领导、负责人的姿态接受崇拜。摩羯座在任何位置都有优越感。 因为摩羯座是最感性的星座巨蟹座的对宫,所以特别不感性(感情自我控制)。决不允许自己落泪。 摩羯座的冷酷来自中心,不像巨蟹座的冷酷只是保护敏感柔软内在的外壳。 由于土相特点,摩羯座脚踏实地,生活在现实世界。摩羯座需要控制,并且不得不(为别人)设立界限来确保每件事情都在可控范围内。对于个人主义不能容忍,因为这会令想要控制的强迫症不满。 摩羯座需要被尊重(甚至犯了错也如此)。不像火相星座,摩羯座并不自大,并且对时间的认识很清醒(总是发展成长的缓慢却稳定)。 摩羯座只有处于掌控者的位置并且对每件事每个人都在掌控之中(无论好坏)时,才会感觉良好。 摩羯座首先想要获取。他们想要制造出看得见摸得到的事物。 摩羯座在未能达成目标时会很消极。然后会变得离群索居郁郁寡欢(某种压抑的状态)。 摩羯座经常轻视、低估、胃口小,是因为他们想要站在巅峰并爬得更高的欲望,摩羯座往往从情感上游离在现实和人群之外。摩羯座可能会过着分离情感的生活,导致没人情和“酷”的举动…… 摩羯座只有在有明确边界和规则的世界中慢慢展开生活(每件事都在合时的时间开始)才感觉良好;意味着生活首先必须“制度化”。 安全感是摩羯座最重要的,他们永远不会在没有安全感的时候敞开心扉。因此,摩羯座通常需要在严格封闭的环境(封闭的门窗)才能感觉到舒适。 ★★★水瓶座——译者:susu 水瓶是固定宫风向星座。所有的风向星座都活在他们自己的头脑世界里,而非活在身体/情感里。事实上,风向并不能很好地理解情感(因为情绪属于水元素)。风向与水向在调和上较为困难。但不管怎样,瓶子没有狮子那么自我中心和自我吹嘘,所以比较脱离个人,而更倾向于客观以及与外界的联系。 别跟瓶子谈感觉,尤其别像个妈似的对他。 瓶子无法忍受独裁主义(这点与狮子摩羯不同)与阶级界限,他需要平等(同秤)。他一视同仁,与每个人都能交流。 而水瓶毕竟属于风向的特质让他缺乏温暖与深度。他的投入度要低得多,也很少想被亲切地拥抱。他抽离地活着,因水瓶代表着个人主义,要他变得(太过)亲密可不容易。瓶子需要的是既密且疏的方式,热衷柏拉图式的关系。 水瓶是固定宫,所以他既坚持己见(见——风元素),又可以在最后忽然转移阵营。他不希望被固定住,他要做自己,依自己心意行事。 瓶子需要自由空间,只有在谈到观点概念、新鲜思想、奇技淫巧、最新装备、人道主义、社会层面时才会来兴致。情感、家庭、一对一的关系等话题只会让把他推远,甚至让他变更冷。 瓶子是黄道十二宫中的“孤僻儿童”,要让他们自在起来,你需要些经验。 瓶子需要摄入大量自然光与置身开放的空间。 ★★★双鱼座——译者:Clover 双鱼座属变动水象星座。所有水象星座均代表不同程度的情感、知觉。水风对冲,不易相处。 双鱼在直觉和创意方面,在十二星座中名列前茅。水象中的变动宫对实体范畴不太感兴趣。双鱼座是超级敏感、易受影响的五种。 易受外界波及,并遭其侵蚀(主要是水象元素所致) 最不会拒绝。易受“感染”,同情心泛滥,也由此情感上易受伤。 鱼儿渴望漂泊,偏好暧昧迷蒙闪烁,但和谐灰暗的气氛,以便迂回或躲闪。 双鱼渴望被承认和“爱”的感觉,不拘泥世俗,但很容易为爱殚精竭虑、精疲力竭。 双鱼需要安全感,否则她/他缩回自己的世界,独守静默。 水象星座不喜肤浅表面的类型(比如风向星座),他们很容易透过表象洞悉本质......,实际上,双鱼是拥有第六感的星座! 不善竞争,不喜约束,因为他喜欢随波逐流或顺其自然。他随着气候、气味、大环境的变化而动。 关爱和深刻的理解能让双鱼感觉良好。有时,她们会萌生拯救他人的使命感。易于做出牺牲。有时,双鱼很需要(渴望)那种牺牲感,甚至是体验悲惨境地。 像其他水象星座一样,双鱼座希望照顾/被照顾。他们运用艺术天赋来调节情绪状态。 双鱼座需要一个可以依靠着哭泣的肩膀。 鱼儿要生活在充满惊奇的魔幻世界。音乐、瀑布(流水)和舒适的家宅让他们感到生活美好。 他们对生物和自然也非常感兴趣,因为外面的事情无处不浪漫,无处不惊喜。 原文: Your Emotional Needs People look for a relationship for various reasons: financial security, balancing a lack of self-worth, emotional needs, sexual urges, pleasure, power plays, ... Every single zodiac sign can be analyzed by looking at the archetypal drives and urges on all of these levels. In this article we will take a look at the emotional needs of every zodiac sign, based upon an analysis of the archetypal meaning of the temperaments of the zodiac sign. Your natal chart is a blend of more than one planet/body/point and more than 1 zodiac sign so that, in practice, not all the listed traits will be apparent or noticeable. Astrology is much more complicated than delineating just one single zodiac sign (be it your Sun or Moon sign) but for novices it's still a good way to learn about the archetypal meanings of each of the signs individually. Also, your Moon sign is often more important than your Sun sign if you want to find out about your emotional needs and well-being. Aries Aries is a cardinal fire sign. Fire signs need action, activities and self-expression. Aries is intuitive and quite innocent (naive) in its approach. Aries needs to DO something and needs a challenge. Aries is often pushing itself fast forward (often too early) to draw attention. It's the zodiac sign of 'here I am'. Aries must push itself through. Aries needs to be the first in whatever it does, otherwise it will feel defeated and frustrated. On an emotional level, Aries is not always that mature because it encompasses everything that just begins, that has just started and that still has to go a long way to develop, experience and grow. It still lacks some insight that only comes with time. All emotions are quick and tend to flare up at times. Because Aries seldom solicits the opinion of the other and makes up his own mind, he's not too cooperative (unlike Libra). Aries can't stand interference from others and cannot stand restraint. Things have to go their way. Also, Aries always wants its needs to be met NOW. Impatiently, it will not and cannot wait. Not for a single second. Aries feels well in a competitive environment. Taurus Taurus is a fixed earth sign. Earth signs live in the material world, not in the emotional world (that is a water trait). Neither does it live in the cerebral world (which is an air trait) so that emotional well-being is a pure physical, organic thing. Hence, they are focused on their own physical body and their possessions. They are emotionally drawn to their own physique as well. Any emotional issues will be visible in the way they appear physically or in the way they handle material goods (money and possessions). Don't play mental games because Taurus won't like it! Watch their eating habits and how they spend money. Watch how Taurus dresses to find out what emotional situation Taurus is in. Taurus needs to feel grounded and secure and will very much attach to his possessions. Taurus needs a no nonsense approach. Things need time to be grasped by Taurus as it's the most inert (and slowest) sign of all the zodiac signs. Because it's also a 'ruminant', it can stick 'ages' to its own emotions (anger, fear,...) and chew on it again and again. Also, Taurus sticks to routine, because that's what makes it feel secure. It dislikes change (and it especially cannot stand sudden changes or unexpected surprises). Taurus needs a harmonious, calm, cozy and beautiful environment to feel well. They need to be cuddled or touched gently. A good massage, shopping and eating nurture Taurus' emotional needs. Taurus loves nature and needs plants, flowers (and trees) in the environment to feel emotionally well. Gemini Gemini is a mutable air sign. All air signs are living in their heads, rather than in their bodies and/or emotions. Actually, air signs don't understand emotions very well (because emotions belong to the water element). Air and water don't blend well. That's why emotions have to be explained instead of being felt. Anyway, Gemini is the information gatherer. Emotionally, Gemini needs to be able to live his versatility and mental dexterity. Mutable air is the most unstable element denoting that Gemini restlessly needs a change. They only feel well when they are kept interested, change the place often and enjoy in a variety of light activities. Emotional issues cause extreme restlessnes and the need to 'go out'. Gemini, the Twins, needs to do two things at the same time to feel fulfilled. Cancer Cancer is a cardinal water sign. All water signs represent emotions and feelings on different levels. Cancer is ALL emotion. It finds an emotion in everything it does and encounters. It feels touched easily. Cancer needs a cozy home environment (or another cozy place of retreat) to feel secure. Cancer feels well if it can care for something or someone. This zodiac sign withdraws easily when hurt. Cancer is the Big Baby and/or the home-lover and/or the family (wo)man. Because Cancer is an extremely sensitive zodiac sign, it feels easily hurt and rejected too. It wants to 'belong'; if not, jealousy will result. Cancer takes everything in (all water signs do), absorbing the atmosphere and environment like a sponge. It wants to protect and encompass everything and it easily holds on to things (and people). Indeed, the Crab is a clingy creature that feels upset and rejected if it cannot mother, protect, nurture (the) other(s). It craves closeness (which air and fire signs dislike)! Emotional issues go hand in hand with eating disorders. Financial security is highly important to support the emotional well-being of Cancer. Leo Leo is a fixed fire sign. Fire signs need action, activities and self-expression. Leo needs to show and present himself. Leo is about 'look at me' or 'have you seen me?' (self-display). Leo is all about self-awareness -- for good or bad. Leo may feel hurt if it cannot show itself. Hence, Leo is the drama Queen or King when (emotionally) upset. Leo represents charcoal that is continuously smouldering and thus has lots of stamina for some time. Leo wants to create something tangible (writing a book, conceiving a child, performing an act,...) and is very creative. Leo needs entertainment, fun and play. It's their way of feeling emotionally fulfilled. Leo becomes generous when praised or appreciated. Leo needs to be the best (unlike Capricorn who needs to be on top and Aries who wants to be the first). Leo craves attention and especially recognition. Their craving for attention is often seen in the way they do their interior decorating. Leo needs to be proud of something or someone. Virgo Virgo is a mutable earth sign. Earth signs live in the material world, not in the emotional world (that is a water trait). Virgo is the most humble and helpful zodiac sign of all, reflecting the submissive, servile and subordinate worker (the proverbial 'civil servant'). Virgo lacks self-confidence and is unsure of itself. Virgo needs details and everything just small. It needs something to worry about as well -- and will always find something to ponder on (be it a word, a topic, a situation, an experience,...). Now you will understand why Virgos have some difficulties in feeling excitement. They are 'dry' and cool and dislike a tear or emotional behavior. Virgo needs to be useful in a tangible way (it's still an earth sign). Virgos can be very nagging and over-analyze emotional situations in the minutest details. Hence, it may be the most dissatisfied zodiac sign around. Virgo can be really picky in emotional matters. Libra Libra is a cardinal air sign. All air signs are living in their heads, rather than in their bodies and/or emotions. Actually, air signs don't understand emotions very well (because emotions belong to the water element). Air and water don't blend well. Anyway, Libra is the most sociable sign of all. Libra needs 'the other' (and is not always critical about that). Libra needs an audience and does not feel comfortable on itself, alone. Libra needs noise (music, talks, ...) and cannot stand complete silence. It does not want to hurt anyone, cannot stand a fight and needs harmony and balance (something it seldom creates itself). Therefore Libra avoids direct confrontation (unlike Aries). Libra is not the most honest zodiac sign and often makes U-turns to maintain balance. Its main interest is in the well-being of 'the other'. Libra needs a response, needs feedback to weigh up any situation. Libra is about co-operation and equality (unlike Aries). Libra mirrors behavior of 'the other'. Emotional issues are easily reflected through the skin and their sweet tooth. Libra needs a harmonious, neat and aesthetically pleasing environment to feel well. Scorpio Scorpio is a fixed water sign. All water signs represent emotions and feelings on different levels. Scorpio's proverb sounds like 'silent waters run deep'. All water signs are silent but because of the fixed nature of Scorpio, it's more reticent and unyielding. Scorpio types rarely show emotions because Scorpio is still a reserved, controlled and secretive sign. Intensity and depth are part of Scorpio's life. Emotions are to be probed, experienced to the full and if necessary torn down. The sensitivity of water then easily becomes a turbulent water-spout. Scorpio senses instinctively and goes for its (primal) urges with determination. Scorpio cannot stand a mediocre life: it needs extremes. Scorpio always needs to be deeply and passionately involved in everything (and everyone). In that way, Scorpio is possessive. It's difficult for Scorpio to trust and they very much need privacy. Scorpios never open up completely and letting go off difficult feelings is almost impossible (it's the fixed trait of Scorpio). It bonds intensely and emotionally with everything or everyone it encounters. Because fixed water materializes into ice, Scorpio can be ice-cold when hurt. Love and hate are two parts of the same for Scorpio and traumatic experiences are part of their life. Sagittarius Sagittarius is a mutable fire sign. Fire signs need action, activities and self-expression. The Archer has lots of strings to his bow but will seldom be able to use them all. Sagittarius needs to propagate, educate, teach, moralize, preach, give (unsollicited) advice,... Sagittarius lives in concepts, not in the day-to-day reality and is thus less interested in the material world and fulfilling physical needs. Sagittarius is lively and rather bold and blunt (tactless) and not very discriminating. It needs to experience its boundless and far-reaching imagination. Sagittarius needs to live its extravagant and exuberant carelessness now and then. Sagittarius needs lots of space and freedom, free from limiting responsibilities. Also, Sagittarius lives in the mind. However, Sagittarius is still a dual sign (above human, below beast) and will vacillate between both in many occasions. This is often shown by toggling between sloppy and neat behavior. Sagittarius is over-confident and cannot stand pragmatic and down-to-earth behavior or opinions. Like most fire signs, emotional issues may be exaggerated over the top, out of any proportion with lots of gestures, hysteria and yelling. Sagittarius can be bullying in a very moralistic way. Emotional issues are reflected in the way Sagittarius handles money (wasting it, gambling,...). Sagittarius seldom feels well at home, it needs to go out, far and away. It's the explorer. They may love hiking and enjoy foreign foods. Sagittarius dislikes being confined. Capricorn Capricorn is a cardinal earth sign. Earth signs live in the material world, not in the emotional world (that is a water trait) nor in the cerebral world (which is an air trait). Capricorn wants to be the highest, on top of everyone. Capricorn needs to be respected for being the boss, the leader, the one who is in charge. Capricorn always feels superior in whatever position. Because Capricorn is the opposite of the most emotional zodiac sign Cancer, it is particularly unemotional (emotional self-control). It won't let a tear. The hardness of Capricorn is central, unlike Cancer which has an outer shell to protect its sensitive and soft inside. Because of the earth traits, Capricorn is down to earth and lives in the material world. Capricorn needs control and has to set boundaries (for others) to have everything (and everyone) under control. It cannot stand individualism which upsets the compulsive drive for control. Capricorn needs to be respected (even for its faults). Unlike the fire signs, Capricorn is not pushy and is more aware of time (things need to grow and develop slowly but steadily). Capricorn feels well only if it is in charge and has everything (and everyone) under control -- for good or bad. Capricorn above all wants to achieve things. They want to produce something tangible. Capricorn can be very negative when it cannot reach its goals. It then becomes reclusive and lives emotionally isolated (in a state of some depression). Capricorn often under-rates, under-estimates, under-eats,... because of its desire to be on top and climb higher and higher, Capricorn tends to emotionally detach itself from reality and other people. Capricorns may start to live emotionally separate lives, resulting in impersonal and 'cool' behavior. Capricorn only feels well when its life unfolds within clearly defined boundaries and rules (everything at the right time); denoting that life must first become 'institutionalized'. Security is of the umost importance to Capricorn and it will never open up if it feels insecure. Therefore, Capricorn often needs a rigid and closed environment (closed doors and windows) to feel comfortable in. Aquarius Aquarius is a fixed air sign. All air signs are living in their heads, rather than in their bodies and/or emotions. Actually, air signs don't understand emotions very well (because emotions belong to the water element). Air and water don't blend well. Anyway, Aquarius is not self-centered and not about self-display, unlike Leo. Hence, Aquarius is less personal and more impersonal, more in contact with its environment. Don't talk about feelings with Aquarius and especially don't mother them. Aquarius cannot stand hierarchical autocracy (unlike Leo and Capricorn) or class distinctions and needs equality (like Libra). Aquarius has an egalitarian outlook and is able to communicate with everyone. Because Aquarius is still an air sign, it lacks some warmth and depth. There is much less close personal involvement and it rarely wants to be cuddled. Aquarius lives detached, because it reflects individualism, and does not easily become (too) intimate. Aquarius needs a friendly detached approach and loves platonic relationships. Because of the fixed character, it holds on to its convictions (the air element) but may be able to suddenly switch to the opposite in the long run. Aquarius does not want to be pinned down. It needs to be and do things on itself. Aquarius needs free room and space and only feels well talking about concepts and new ideas, technologies, gadgets, the latest equipment, humanity, our society. Talking about emotions, family, one-on-one relationships etc. may result in yet more detached and even cold behavior. Aquarius is the 'autist' of the zodiac so that it may need some experience to get them at ease. Aquarius needs plenty of natural light and an open space. Pisces Pisces is a mutable water sign. All water signs represent emotions and feelings on different levels. Water and air are opposites and don't blend well. Pisces is one of the most sensual and creative zodiac signs. Mutable water is not interested in the physical realm which it washes away. Pisces is very impressionable and susceptible. Pisces is too open to other external influences and absorbs it all (due to the water element). Pisces can hardly so 'no'. Pisces easily feels 'flooded', overflown in its sympathy, compassion and is thus very vulnerable. Pisces tends to drift and needs a vague, misty, elusive but harmonious and dimmed atmosphere where they can retreat or withdraw. Pisces longs for approval and affection. It most often has a very relaxed body and is liable to physical exhaustion and lassitude. Pisces needs a very very secure environment otherwise it will retreat into itself in silence. Water signs are not superficial (the air signs are) and they easily look below the surface, behind the appearances and curtains... Indeed, Pisces has a sixth sense! Pisces cannot stand competition and is difficult to pin down because it follows the current and flow. It goes with the changing weather, smells and the general atmosphere. Pisces needs compassion and tons of understanding to feel well. Sometimes, they feel the need to 'rescue' someone. Making sacrifices is their delight. Indeed, Pisces often needs (craves) kind of a 'victim' or dire situations. Like all water signs, Pisces wants to (take) care. They have to live their artistic skills to balance their emotional state. Pisces needs a shoulder to cry on. Pisces needs a magical world full of wonders. Music, waterfalls (running water) and a comfortable home make them feel good. They are also very interested in biology and nature so that the outdoors in a romantic setting may work wonders too.
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