儿童教育

来自: 信使 (深圳)
创建时间: 2007-10-02 10:16:25　

　　育儿，儿童心理，早期教育
　　
　　在我们的社会中，尽管养育孩子是我们面临的最重要的事情之一，但在这方面缺乏培训，对什么人能养育儿童、怎样养育儿童都没有规定，其结果是，很多儿童缺少个人价值感，他们对父母感到害怕，不知道怎么与他们相处，他们担心因他们不理解的原因而受到父母不公正的惩罚，他们感到不安全和不适应，他们渴望温暖，他们需要支持，但却得不到。这些儿童感到迷惘、害怕、焦虑。——凯伦.霍尼
　　in our society, despite the upbringing of our children are facing one of the most important thing, but the lack of training in this area, what people can raise children, how Rearing children are not required, the result is that many children lack of personal worth, they are afraid of their parents, do not know how to get along with them, they are worried that because they do not understand the reasons for and unfair punishment by their parents, they feel insecure And are not suited, they want warmth, they need support, but are not. These children feel a loss, fear, anxiety. -- Karen. Huoni
　　
　　
　　Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk.　　
　　儿童的教养源于成人的修为而非说教。　
　　Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent. 　　
　　父母死气沉沉的生活对周围人特别是自己孩子的影响，是无与伦比的。
　　　　Sometimes, indeed, there is such a discrepancy between the genius and his human qualities that one has to ask oneself whether a little less talent might not have been better. 　　
　　　　确实，天才的天赋和他的人类品质有时会差异如此巨大，人们不得不怀疑天赋平庸点也许是件好事。
　　　If there is anything that we wish to change in our children, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves. 　　
　　　　我们如果想在某方面改变自己的孩子，则应当首先审视它，看看它是否是自身中应改进的一面。
　　　Any large company composed of wholly admirable persons has the morality and intelligence of an unwieldy, stupid, and violent animal. The bigger the organization, the more unavoidable is its immorality and blind stupidity... Society, by automatically stressing all the collective qualities in its individual representatives, puts a premium on mediocrity, on everything that settles down to vegetate in an easy, irresponsible way. Individuality will inevitably be driven to the wall. This process begins in school, continues at the university, and rules all departments in which the State has a hand. 　　
　　　　全部由极佳人士组成的任何大公司，会有着笨拙、愚蠢、暴烈动物般的道德和智力。组织越庞大，它的不道德和盲目愚蠢就越是不可避免。...社会通过机械地强调其个体成员表征中的集体特质，来奖励平庸、奖励因不负责任地走捷径而能够四平八稳的一切。个体性无可避免地撞得头破血流。这个过程开始于学校、在大学中延续，并支配着国家插手于其中的一切部门。。
　　--卡尔．荣格
　　
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